My friends are always saying, "I could never do your job.""Why not?" I ask. "I'm not skinny enough," they reply. Or "I'm too old." Or "I hate dressing up." Or "I'm not fit enough to have sex for hours." When most people think of escorts, they picture someone who looks like a Penthouse model: young, skinny and glamorous. The imagine hours and hours of non-stop, porn-style sex. While there are lots...
Welcome to the Scarlet Blue Touring Escort Series. Dedicated to our touring escorts, this series of our guest blog provides an exciting and informative glimpse into the world of an independent touring escort.Please welcome International touring escort Lulu Valentine.WHAT IS THE BEST PART ABOUT BEING A TOURING ESCORT?It is hard to narrow it down to one “best” thing. One aspect of this work tha...
Welcome to the Scarlet Blue Touring Escort Series. Dedicated to our touring escorts, this series of our guest blog provides an exciting and informative glimpse into the world of an independent touring escort.Please welcome Melbourne based touring escort Phoenix Chase.WHAT IS THE BEST PART ABOUT BEING A TOURING ESCORT?I’ve always been particularly fond (nay, obsessed) with travelling. There’s...
I imagine you're not looking forward to reading about consent. I imagine you think it's going to be super-feminist and boring, like listening to an academic lecture. Or maybe you're worried that I'm going to try and make you feel guilty about doing it wrong, as though consent is something only 'good' people do ... and if you don't know how, that I'll tell you you're a d*ckhead.It's okay. I promise...
If you know me, you know I'm enthusiastic about weird sexual fantasies. But last week I came up with something really odd - and it caught me by surprise.I was lying on my couch binge-watching Netflix. This is a common occurrence, especially for those of us whose evening hours are taken up with debauchery. Our days can be long and quiet. When I'm not working on my writing projects or catching up wi...
It's hard finding new clients in this business.I have been an entrepreneur for a long, long time. I've been a photographer, a designer, a personal trainer (no dirty jokes, thanks! Or I'll make you do a hundred push-ups.)In my other types of work I have found, without exception, that 'word of mouth' referrals always get me the best sort of business. When someone recommends me to their friend / busi...
New Year’s Eve is a weird time to stop and think about our lives.For one thing, it's too noisy to think very hard. Fireworks, drunk friends, crowds, parties. Being surrounded by noise and movement is not conducive to quiet reflection. And then there's the drinking, and the fact that we stay up into the early hours. How can we get things straight in our minds when we're feeling tipsy and it's three...
Do you ever mix sex with your other hobbies?For example: I love cake. I love it the way other people love their cars or their pets. I love cake so much that I will cancel social commitments just so that I can stay at home and eat it.This might be stating the obvious, I also love sex. In my twenties I had a 'friend with benefits', an itinerant circus performer who would drop by from time to time. H...
Who do you trust? Everyone has a story."My mum is my best friend," a girlfriend tells me over drinks, "we talk about everything."Another one of my friends: "The people I play games with online don't have any secrets. We've never met in person, but we know exactly what's going on in each other’s' lives.""I have an ex-girlfriend who helps me out whenever I'm having trouble in a relationship." says a...
Welcome to the Scarlet Blue Touring Escort Series. Dedicated to our touring escorts, this series of our guest blog provides an exciting and informative glimpse into the world of an independent touring escort.Please welcome Melbourne based touring escort Lola Hunt.WHAT IS THE BEST PART ABOUT BEING A TOURING ESCORT?Not to sound totally cliche but the travel is fairly high up there. I think more than...