I had a disastrous booking recently, but it wasn't my fault.A guy from the country had decided to book a friend and me for a double. It was his first time seeing an escort, so it was a really big deal - we were planning on going out to dinner with him, and then we would be taking him back to his hotel for an amazing night of wild, kinky sex.Unfortunately the evening didn't go according to plan.The...
"I'm seeing someone else now." he wrote.It was a very short message, a one-line email from a client I had been seeing for two years. It was a response to a friendly greeting I had sent out - I do this periodically for my regular clients, to touch base and see how they're going. As soon as I saw the words, I felt a sinking feeling in my stomach.It wasn't that he was my most frequent client, or my b...
When I was a wild twentysomething I thought that having a good night out meant having great sex. I'd go out with my friends, drink too much, party too hard and sometimes I'd wind up taking someone home. The details are blurry because so much time has passed (and so many drinks were consumed) but one thing I do remember was the joy of landing a 'good catch'.I had a number of successes: the arm...
"I don't share anything personal about myself with the escorts I see - why would I? It's just about sex."The words popped up on my screen - an opinion offered on Twitter by a long-time punter.Ironically, I had just spent half an hour doing exactly that - sharing my thoughts with a lovely gent over coffee in my local cafe. I'd spoken with him about my latest writing projects and favourite books. He...
Sex: we all do it, either with someone else or just with ourselves. Getting laid is one of those elusive human pursuits that everyone aspires to do well. Unfortunately, it's difficult to get hold of good information on the subject.This is partly because Western culture is so sex-negative - we don't like talking about sex in public. But also, there's an assumption that sex should come 'naturally.'...
I've been studying at University for about eight weeks now, and it's reminding me of all the things I love about escorting.Let's start with the timetable. I'm not a creature of habit, so the idea of regularly turning up to the same place each week is horrifying. It's always startling when I arrive at my Monday morning lectures to find the same people, the same faces - I'm used to meeting new peopl...
When I was twenty-six, I saw a sex worker for the first time. I hadn't become an escort yet at that point, I was just a regular lady with a male partner, looking for a threesome. It's very hard to find unattached single ladies for threesomes (that's why they're called 'unicorns') so we decided to go to a brothel and find someone to sleep with us. Well, it sure was a nerve-wracking experience! I re...
Welcome to the Scarlet Blue Touring Escort Series. Dedicated to our touring escorts, this series of our guest blog provides an exciting and informative glimpse into the world of an independent touring escort.Please welcome Melbourne based touring escort Elle Thorn.WHAT IS THE BEST PART ABOUT BEING A TOURING ESCORT?For me it's exploring whichever city I happen to be in. I have a serious travel addi...
My friends are always saying, "I could never do your job.""Why not?" I ask. "I'm not skinny enough," they reply. Or "I'm too old." Or "I hate dressing up." Or "I'm not fit enough to have sex for hours." When most people think of escorts, they picture someone who looks like a Penthouse model: young, skinny and glamorous. The imagine hours and hours of non-stop, porn-style sex. While there are lots...
Welcome to the Scarlet Blue Touring Escort Series. Dedicated to our touring escorts, this series of our guest blog provides an exciting and informative glimpse into the world of an independent touring escort.Please welcome International touring escort Lulu Valentine.WHAT IS THE BEST PART ABOUT BEING A TOURING ESCORT?It is hard to narrow it down to one “best” thing. One aspect of this work tha...