The sex industry is renowned for having a secret language all of its own, a language that is known and understood only by the most experienced of clients and escorts.
Many newcomers to the escort industry find this “lingo” daunting, and sometimes frustrating. It can lead to misunderstanding, and possible conflict.
Having a full understanding of the services provided by an escort is very important for clients. A prospective client needs to know in advance what an escort’s boundaries may be. He wants to know if the lady he is looking at in a picture can fulfil the fantasies he desires, and provide the services that he craves.
Communication and understanding are paramount to having a memorable and intimate escort experience.
We have designed this glossary for anybody who has heard or read escort abbreviations and acronyms, and wondered what these terms actually meant. As some escorts may have experienced, there are terms for services they have come across that even they are not familiar with. With this explanation, we hope to help both clients and escorts.
Below is a very comprehensive list of services that a private escort may provide. Due to the comprehensive nature of this list, most ladies will provide some, but not all, of the services explained.
(in alphabetical order)
A
- Anal play – refers to any kind of external play or penetration of the anus, either by use of finger, tongue, sex toys, or penis
- Anal sex – penetration of the penis inside the anus, also referred to as greek
- ATM – ass to mouth. Involves acts such as giving oral sex immediately after receiving anal sex, or putting a finger or a vibrator in one’s mouth immediately after anal penetration
B
- Bi twin - a double booking with two bisexual escorts
- BJ – blow job, oral sex
- BBBJ – bare back blow job. Giving unprotected oral sex to a man.
- BBBJTC - bare back blow job to completion
- BBW – big beautiful woman. A woman who is Rubenesque, voluptuous, curvy.
- BLS – balls licking and sucking
- B & D – bondage & discipline
- BDSM – bondage domination sadomasochism
- Bondage – sexual act that involves the tying up or restraining of one partner
- Brazilian – a form of bikini wax that removes the hair from the front, middle and rear of a woman’s pubic area. A “landing strip” is sometimes left at the front, others opt to have the hair completely removed
- BS – body slide. An escort seductively slides her naked body over yours
C
- CBT – cock and ball torture – A BDSM sexual activity involving torture or pain affliction of the male genitals
- CD – cross dressing – a man who derives pleasure from dressing in clothes appropriate to the opposite sex
- CIM – cum in mouth – to ejaculate in the mouth
- CIMWS – cum in mouth with swallow. to ejaculate in the mouth and swallow the fluid
- CBJ – covered blow job, protected oral sex with a condom
- COB – cum on body. To ejaculate on a person’s body
- COF – cum on face, To ejaculate on a person’s face
- Cougar – a more mature woman seeking a sexual relationship with a younger man
- Costumes and role play – The wearing of fantasy outfits and assuming the roles of characters, to heighten sexual excitement. Such examples of fantasy costumes can be nurse, school girl, maid, secretary and mistress
- Couples – A couple in a relationship. An escort that includes “couples” in her services list means she provides a bisexual service to a couple
D
- DATY – stands for Dining At The Y. Performing oral sex on a woman
- DATO – see rimming
- DFK – deep French kissing, tongue kissing
- Dinner companion – a social escort who accompanies you to dinner. May or may not provide sexual services
- Dirty talk – the practice of using graphic words to heighten sexual pleasure during intimacy
- DP – double penetration. Two men penetrate one woman with vaginal and anal sex
- DDP – double digit penetration. One finger in the vagina, and the other in the anus
- DT – deep throat. The technique of taking the entire length of a man’s penis in one’s mouth and giving oral sex
- Doggy style – a sexual position, where the man penetrates a woman from behind
E
- Erotic sensual massage – a body rub that is intended to sexually stimulate the receiver
- Facial – Ejaculating on a woman’s face
- FE – female ejaculation during orgasm. Also referred to as squirting
F
- Fetish – a need or desire for an object, body part, or activity for sexual excitement
- Filming – the film or digital recording of a sexual act
- Fire and ice – giving oral sex and switching between hot tea and cold ice cube
- Fisting – the penetration of the whole hand inside the vagina or anus
- FK – French kissing, tongue kissing
- Foot fetish – a pronounced sexual interest and gratification in feet or shoes
- French – oral sex, fellatio
- FS – full service. Refers to an escort providing a full sex service
G
- Gagging – a sexual act of gratification where the female gags or chokes on a man’s erect penis
- GFE – girlfriend experience. A very intimate service, where the escort is more like a girlfriend. May include such services as sex, french kissing and mutual oral sex. The details of each escort’s girlfriend experience can vary, and confirmation about her services is recommended.
- Greek – anal sex
- GS – golden shower. Involves watching an escort urinate, or one person passing water on another
H
- Happy ending – hand job after massage
- HJ – hand job. Sexually stimulating the penis by hand
I
- Italian – rubbing penis between the buttocks
L
- LK – light kissing, usually with a closed mouth
M
- MILF – mother I’d like to fuck. Describes a sexually attractive female, usually several years older than the person using the term
- MFF – male female female. A threesome with one man and two women
- MMF – male male female. A threesome with two men and one woman
- Multiple positions – an escort who allows you to have sex in many different styles and positions
- Masturbation – sexually arousing one’s self, usually to the point of orgasm. Can be performed by use of fingers, hands, an object, or a sex toy
- Mutual masturbation – escort and client sexually arousing themselves, while they voyeuristically watch each other
- Mutual French – Both parties will give and reciprocate oral sex. If done at the same time, is referred to as a 69
- Mutual natural French – both parties give and receive unprotected oral sex
- MSOG – multiple shots on goal. An escort providing MSOG service will allow a client to orgasm multiple times
N
- Natural bush – unshaven or unwaxed pubic hair
O
- OWO – oral without a condom
- Overnight stays – an escort who stays overnight at a client’s hotel or residence
P
- Photography – the photographing of a sexual act
- PNDP – Please, no dick pics
- Prostate massage – the massage or stimulation of the male prostate gland by anal penetration, for sexual stimulation. Sometimes referred to as the male G-spot
- PSE – porn star experience. A sexual encounter that is very similar to what you would see in a pornographic film. Involves a wide range of sexual positions and tends to be very hardcore. The details of each escort’s porn star experience can vary, and confirmation about her services is recommended.
- Punter – the client or customer of an escort
R
- Role play – assuming the roles of characters, to heighten sexual excitement
- Rimming – licking the anus
S
- Sex toy – an object or device that is primarily used to facilitate human sexual pleasure. Includes such instruments as dildos, vibrators and strap ons.
- Snowballing – the act of transferring semen or cum from one person’s mouth to another
- Spanish – rubbing the penis between an escorts breasts, sometimes until climax
- Spanking – the act of slapping another person’s buttocks for the sexual arousal or gratification of either or both parties
- Spit roasting – A woman giving oral sex to one male whilst being penetrated from behind.
- Squirting – a female ejaculating fluid from her vagina during orgasm
- Strap on – A dildo designed to be worn, usually with a harness, to penetrate a sexual partner
- Strip tease – an erotic dance, where the escort slowly undressed for her client in a teasing fashion
T
- Tea bagging – placing a man’s balls in the mouth of a partner
- Toy show – A masturbation show, by use of sex toys including vibrators
- Tromboning - an act where a female kneels behind her male partner and licks his anus while masturbating his erect penis
- TTM – testicular tongue massage
W
- Water sports – see golden shower
- WL – working lady, escort