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If you’re in it for the long term, stay off the escalator

Sticking the long term: it’s harder than you think. Long-term relationships with escorts can be incredibly rewarding, but they’re also fraught with peril.As an escort client coach, the number-one issue I discuss with clients is managing their emotional boundaries. If a guy (or girl) sees an escort for a while, they might start to develop feelings. And there’s nothing wrong with that! Emotions, as...

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Are you a bedroom micromanager? You could be missing out

Do you ever find yourself worrying over every little detail of your escort booking?Seeing sex workers can be expensive and time-consuming, so it’s understandable that you’d be anxious about the details. This might include picking the right shirt to wear, finding the best restaurant, and making sure you’re well-rested for the evening’s festivities. But aside from all the preparation, you might also...

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The Two-Minute Game

We’re sitting cross-legged on the bed. I’m wearing my lingerie; he’s taken off his shoes and socks, jacket and  well-pressed trousers, but he’s still wearing his business shirt. The lights are dimmed, and we’ve drawn the blinds on a rainy Melbourne afternoon. Right now, it feels as though we’re in our own little world.I say, “What would you like me to do for you right now?”He stretches, glanc...

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Becoming an escort taught me the secrets of great sex

Let me tell you a secret – I wasn’t always good in bed. In fact, before I began work as an escort, my sex life was a total train wreck.I was socially awkward. I didn’t know much about how to please others. And although I had a lot of sex in my twenties, most of it was unremarkable. I bounced from one hook-up to the next, never sure whether I was getting it right. Sometimes things went well… but so...

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How to have the perfect threesome, according to escort Alice Grey

You might think threesomes are something that only happen in porn or in the movies, but more and more folks these days are experimenting with the ménage-a-trois. How can we get a threesome happening? And how do we make sure it goes well? I recently invited escort Alice Grey into my bedroom for an honest chat about having the perfect threesome encounter.Here’s how it went: We sat down, switched on...

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I’m an escort client coach: here are top 5 questions I’ve heard from my coaching clients

For about eight months now, I’ve worked as an escort client coach.What’s an escort client coach, you may ask? Good question. Basically, it’s someone (me) who chats with people who see sex workers, helping them to get started or to working on their specific problems. There’s a lot of variety – sometimes I’m advising clients on how to book an escort for the first time. Sometimes I’m chatting with a...

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For a better date, do this: seven strategies for a great escort experience

When it comes to sex, we often just hope for the best; but it's not the best way.One of my favourite sayings about escort bookings is, 'it takes two to tango.' Although it's your professional's job to work out what you need and make sure you have a good time, we can only do so much. Your experience is going to be vastly improved if you meet us halfway. And since you're investing a lot of time and...

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Let's talk about loneliness

Recently, I received a message that made me feel sad.I encourage my followers to send me their questions about escorts. The questions are submitted on my website via an anonymous form - I never know the name of the sender, not their location. Over the past few months I've written answers on every conceivable escort topic, from 'How much should I tip?' to 'Should I lose my virginity with a sex work...

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The Fine Art of Gift Giving

This is a blog about gift-giving. I've been gifted many items over the course of my career, ranging from traditional to unconventional. I've given gifts too ... wine, chocolates, birthday cards. I even bought someone a donut once at Short Stop (just to be clear, that's not the way it normally goes, guys!)But there’s often a lot of confusion about what the rules are, and some of my clients admit to...

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The Little Black Dress

I’ll always remember my first ‘little black dress’.It's a rite of passage - the first purchase one makes as a female-presenting sex worker. Perhaps it's not always black... depending on the worker, it could be a red dress, a sparkly sequinned affair, or a smart business frock. But we all have a story about our first escorting outfit.When I started working as an escort, I didn't have much cash to h...

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