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A Year of Living Selfishly

I don't believe in New Year’s resolutions.I've certainly done them: when everyone else is drunk and cheering at the end of the countdown, I'm generally the quiet one at the party. I'll be tucked away in the corner cataloging the triumphs and failures of the year gone by. The end of the calendar year is arbitrary - it only matters because we say it does - but it's nice to find an effective way to delineate our lives. It gives me a space of time to sum up my achievements and plan for the future without feeling overwhelmed. For me, that's what New Year’s Eve is all about.Perhaps it's because I'm reaching a certain age (I turned 30 this year, something of a milestone!) but I'm seeing a lot of self-questioning going on amongst my friends and clients. Is it the stage in our lives or is it what's going on in the world at the moment? I'm not sure. Last week I had a coffee date with a guy who told me that he had reached a point in his life where he was tired of putting other people first. He had realised that all of his time was spent doing things to benefit others: his family, his job, his household tasks. He couldn't remember how long it had been since he had done something only for himse...

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Making a Time Investment

"There's only one thing more precious than our time, and that's who we spend it on."- Leo ChristopherAs an escort who charges by time and not by activity, the length of a booking can drastically alter the experience.Punters  will often divide escorts into two categories - 'girlfriend experience' (GFE) and 'porn star experience' (PSE). The 'girlfriend experience' refers to a style of escorting that approximates a date with your girlfriend (assuming that your girlfriend is really hot, wears lacy lingerie 24/7 and is always sexually available.) It emphasises connection rather than the raunchy sex that falls under the Porn Star Experience (PSE) umbrella. Both these terms can be overused, and you'll often hear escorts complain that their service can't be placed into either category. I'm fairly content with being labelled a GFE escort, as I like to emphasise intimacy with my clients. However I have also been known to dirty talk, dress up in schoolgirl costumes and have creative multiple-position sexual experiences.I'd like to propose an alternative way to classify my services: by duration.Example one: a sixty-minute lunch engagement. The gentleman in question was sneaking out of wor...

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Are you a Sex worker? Join us on December 17, 2016

Being a sex worker can be a fantastic job! We love connecting with people, working flexible hours, indulging our kinks and exploring our sexuality. But because of its amazing flexibility sex workers in Australia (especially sex workers who work alone as escorts and connect with their clients online) can sometimes feel isolated or unsupported. Escorting isn't like an office job where you spend most of your days working in a team or community with colleagues and peers. We don't have a water cooler to stand around and debrief or share our accomplishments. Sex worker organisations and peer-groups exist across Australia and are run by sex workers for sex workers. They're our office! Spaces we can chat and share information with other sex workers. If you're feeling lonely or if you have questions about sex work and you don't have anyone to ask, they are where you can find your community. Most sex worker organisations and peer groups are for sex workers only - so that we can share freely and overcome concerns about privacy or judgement.Respect Inc are a Queensland organisation run by sex workers for sex workers. We have offices / safer spaces in Brisbane, Cairns, Townsville and...

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Playing with Your Food

Last month I wrote a Scarlet Blue article about fine dining. It was fun to show you my 'sophisticated' side. But like all women I'm a multi-faceted individual; when it comes to food, it's not always about linen napkins and fine wine. This month I'd like to talk about my more messy encounters...those times when food has found its way into my sex life.The phrase 'food sex' may conjure up visions of those candy g-strings they sell in adult shops...That's not what I'm talking about. (Although I did once try to eat one  that I'd received as a party favour. I ate it in front of the TV after I had run out of more conventional candy. It wasn't very impressive.)  My first sexy food encounter involved a regular lover, his rather impressive member, and some black forest cake. I hope he reads this and gets a kick out of it because I have never had a more delicious, er, slice of baked goods. My regular clients know I have a sweet tooth so I'm often presented with chocolates and candy. I remember one incident in particular: a gentleman spent the night before our booking hand-dipping strawberries in chocolate as an afternoon snack. Never before have I seen such diligence. Most of them e...

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My Fine Dining Obsession

Let me tell you the story of my journey from common food consumer to cuisine fanatic.Mmmm, food in Melbourne....exploring narrow laneways, stumbling over bluestone pavement in my high heels. Laughing and linked arm-in-arm with my date for the night. Finding the secret tucked-away eateries, or being gracefully ushered to my seat in polished, cavernous restaurants. I love reading a menu and not knowing all the ingredients. I love having wine recommendations read to us by sommeliers as though we are presumed to be profoundly knowledgable about the vintage.Melbourne is the ultimate foodie city. In my time here I've sample some of Melbourne's best cuisine. I've travelled to some major wine regions in Australia - the Hunter Valley in NSW, Margaret River wine region in WA and the Yarra Valley in VIC. I have a few clients in particular who delight in visiting new places and I've been able to experience a lot with them.I haven't always been accustomed to the 'high life'. I was a fine arts student in my twenties, which means a few things: I never got out of bed before 9am, I wore black, and I was always short on cash. It's amazing what you can manage on a food budget of twenty dollars per we...

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Did Someone Say 3 - Finding the Right Partners

This is the latest instalment from a man who has been exploring the world of fantasy through the professional services of private companions. I hope this sheds a little light on what was for me very uncharted territory, for some it certainly is not. This also does not confine itself to just the male, female, female (MFF) type as you may read on later.As many guys might fantasise about the idea of spending intimate time with more than one partner it is something I think a lot of men and probably women do fantasise about. I certainly had but my 'normal' life certainly has never given me the opportunity to explore this fantasy and it was something I did really want to do. So naturally as I became much more confident seeing the private companion it was growing more and more something going from a thought to making it happen. In the past I tried unsuccessfully twice to make it happen but for various reasons it never occurred. So casting back over 12 months ago I had already made plans to meet up with 2 ladies I knew pretty well after a few private 1 on 1 dates. Why had I chose them? Well this is where this blog comes into play. Firstly my connection with them was fantastic. Secondly the...

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Choosing a Name

Sex worker aliases were a fascination for me long before I became an escort. When I was a kid one's 'porn name' was the name of your first pet, followed by the first street you lived on (my porn name is 'Twinkle Georgina'.) Invented names were theatrical: the drag queens I watched at Taylor Square in my early twenties. Call girls, dancers and porn stars I saw at the movies or on television were larger-than-life: Bambi, Honey, Mercedes. If someone had suggested to my twenty-one-year-old self that 'Georgie Wolf' was an appropriate name for an escort, I would have disagreed.I've often wondered what life would be like if we could choose our first names. There's a reason they are called 'given' names: by the time one is old enough to question whether a particular name is appropriate, it's become part of us. Unless your parents decide to gift you with something particularly difficult, a name usually sticks. I never thought I'd have the chance to pick anything else.I'm not a theatrical person and I've never felt the need to have a working 'persona'. My first sex industry job was in a parlour and, being fairly inexperienced, I happily accepted the name suggestion the receptionist made. In...

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Couples Part II: the Experience

Following on from last week’s ‘Open Letter to Adventurous Couples’ I’d like to take some time explaining what seeing an escort for a threesome is actually like.I’m writing this for one couple is particular, a lovely pair I spoke to on the phone last week. They were really excited about experimenting with another lady but didn’t know where to start or how an escort booking was supposed to proceed. All that ‘not knowing’ only serves to get in the way of feeling comfortable, so let’s address it now and move on to the fun stuff!Most of the couples I see are hetero male/female (MF for short) although I also welcome FF pairs. I would entertain the idea of a guy/guy combo if the guys were genuine lovers (in fact that sounds pretty hot) but usually when two guys ask, it’s not because they are romantically attached. SO M/M is a NO, sorry guys.Before the SessionThere is a lot of variance in what couples want out of their encounter with me – some want  full-on three-way sex, some just want me to play with the girl while the guy watches, some want the guy to be the centre of attention. All of these options are acceptable.To make sure I have a complete understanding of what everyone needs,...

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An Open Letter to Adventurous Couples

This is a heartfelt letter to the adventurous lovers out there: the ones I’ve played with, and the ones I’ve yet to meet.Couples come in all shapes, sizes and genders. You may be young professionals. You may be married with kids. You might be straight or gay, trans or cis. You may be well off or working-class. You may have been living together for only a few months or occasional lovers for decades.  Whatever your flavour, you have two things in common: your commitment to each other, and your desire to try something new…at some point in your relationship you’ve decided that two people isn’t enough.You may have talked about swinging but weren’t sure how to get started. You may have thought about inviting a friend into your bedroom, but worried that it would affect the friendship. So you’ve decided to spend some of your hard-earned savings and see an escort instead.I remember when it happened to me. I was twenty-five. My then partner and I were madly in love and we wanted to explore everything together. My boyfriend had never had a threesome, and I was determined to make it happen for him; even back then, nothing made me happier than introducing the people I care about to new exp...

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A Hidden World of Fantasy and Escape Right in Front of Us

This blog is from that of a male client and I hope it gives you an insight to at least one guy's perspective. This blog is about the hidden world we all play in and WHERE we play. I recently attended a fun reproduction of 1960/70's hidden Sydney up at Kings Cross and thought whilst it was fun it really had me thinking of the here and now. The hidden Sydney (and other cities) and the places that I have been fortunate to experience. Compared to my real world this hidden world of private companions is like no other. The show and my real experiences have inspired this blog entry.When I first started out living in a hidden Sydney I knew nothing and I am still learning of course. The places I started out were 2  'establishments' and there was a little familiarity of the hidden Sydney show in these. I guess some formats do not change in establishments. The venues were large and places that I would not normally be near in my everyday life. But I guess that was the appeal, going to a part of my city I could escape into even if only for an hour (which I soon learned was not enough).Eventually it was a natural transition to seeing private companions. So started my introduction to really...

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