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One for the ladies: three useful ideas for women who see escorts

Are you a woman who books (or would like to book) escorts? If so, this blog is for you.It’s easy to forget that people of all genders see sex workers. When we read about escorts in the media, or see actors pretending to be sex workers in movies and on television, the client is almost always a bloke. It’s hardly surprising that when we think of clients, we think of men.I do it too. When I write the...

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Here’s everything I know about making mistakes

One morning a year or so ago, I was out on my daily long-distance run when I had an idea. ‘Maybe I should write a book about having better sex,’ I thought. You know how it is: activewear, headphones in, trying not to think about anything in particular as I jogged around my local park. I’d had some fun conversations that week with my friends about their terrible Tinder dates. As a sex professi...

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Four essential hook-up skills for escort clients

People often ask me “What’s the difference between an escort session and a regular hook-up?” or “Is it still casual sex when you’re seeing a sex worker?”I think there’s very little difference. Paying a worker means that you might have access to experiences that wouldn’t normally be available – such as long hand-holding sessions, new sexual positions, or experiencing different body types. But no ma...

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Don’t forget the golden rule

There’s a golden rule when it comes to seeing escorts…but it might not be what you expect.It all starts with an innocent question:“Do escorts prefer gifts or cash tips?”“Do escorts like to be reviewed online?”“How can I please my worker in the bedroom?”“How many messages is it ok to send between bookings?”All these questions are straightforward, understandable, and very common. But there’s a probl...

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If you’re in it for the long term, stay off the escalator

Sticking the long term: it’s harder than you think. Long-term relationships with escorts can be incredibly rewarding, but they’re also fraught with peril.As an escort client coach, the number-one issue I discuss with clients is managing their emotional boundaries. If a guy (or girl) sees an escort for a while, they might start to develop feelings. And there’s nothing wrong with that! Emotions, as...

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Are you a bedroom micromanager? You could be missing out

Do you ever find yourself worrying over every little detail of your escort booking?Seeing sex workers can be expensive and time-consuming, so it’s understandable that you’d be anxious about the details. This might include picking the right shirt to wear, finding the best restaurant, and making sure you’re well-rested for the evening’s festivities. But aside from all the preparation, you might also...

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The Two-Minute Game

We’re sitting cross-legged on the bed. I’m wearing my lingerie; he’s taken off his shoes and socks, jacket and  well-pressed trousers, but he’s still wearing his business shirt. The lights are dimmed, and we’ve drawn the blinds on a rainy Melbourne afternoon. Right now, it feels as though we’re in our own little world.I say, “What would you like me to do for you right now?”He stretches, glanc...

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Becoming an escort taught me the secrets of great sex

Let me tell you a secret – I wasn’t always good in bed. In fact, before I began work as an escort, my sex life was a total train wreck.I was socially awkward. I didn’t know much about how to please others. And although I had a lot of sex in my twenties, most of it was unremarkable. I bounced from one hook-up to the next, never sure whether I was getting it right. Sometimes things went well… but so...

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How to have the perfect threesome, according to escort Alice Grey

You might think threesomes are something that only happen in porn or in the movies, but more and more folks these days are experimenting with the ménage-a-trois. How can we get a threesome happening? And how do we make sure it goes well? I recently invited escort Alice Grey into my bedroom for an honest chat about having the perfect threesome encounter.Here’s how it went: We sat down, switched on...

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I’m an escort client coach: here are top 5 questions I’ve heard from my coaching clients

For about eight months now, I’ve worked as an escort client coach.What’s an escort client coach, you may ask? Good question. Basically, it’s someone (me) who chats with people who see sex workers, helping them to get started or to working on their specific problems. There’s a lot of variety – sometimes I’m advising clients on how to book an escort for the first time. Sometimes I’m chatting with a...

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