Sex and penis size
I cannot imagine what it would be like being a young 14 year old boy grappling with new found sexuality, growing up in this culture of big cock machismo/ jock/ pseudo porn star- feeling the social pressure of needing to bury it/ man up/ harden the fuck up.
I like people with heart, good people. People who practice kindness and consideration.
I love men, I love women- I love humanity.
But I don't love the way in which we ridicule and reduce one another to just 2 dimensional form.
Nothing wrong with admiring beauty, not at all.
But, I do not like the way we negatively objectify tits, ass, pussy lips, cellulite, penis size and set some ridiculous standard of what is acceptable and what isn't. Like is that all there is for some people? If so, you are just majorly missing out.
I was on a directory recently and the forum posts were so utterly vile-
Guys publicly discussing woman's sexual prowess in a way like they were comparing notes on the performance of particular models of cars.
And it was just downright mean.
Equally it makes my skin crawl when I hear women joking about penis size-
Remember that ad campaign with 'the pinky gesture.' - small man, small penis? The campaign itself was promoting something positive but it resorted to such a bullshit way of getting an important message out there that ended up convoluting the message by pretty much affirming the idea that 'small cock is not OK' -
How does that young 14 year old boy with a small dick interpret this? Nah- Not really OK.
How shitty for young boys having to deal with growing up in a world where it's shameful/ funny/ embarrassing to have a small cock.
If this was you as a boy, I wish I could have told you to ignore the bullshit- there are women out here that appreciate you- that like and desire you for so much more than appendage big or small-
And I know this has been addressed before.
B M said in a post yesterday-
Regarding size and an article she'd seen on how apparently size does matter- Billie's response- 'Ladies, if it's such a problem, do your pelvic floor exercises'- LMAO!
M D often talks about this in her posts- Respect.
O's recent post regarding soul vs Technique- couldn't agree more.
I'm not alone.
I want you good men out there reading this to understand that having model looks and a large penis has jack shit anything to do with being an attractive man. That stuff is just fluff.
Having respect, sensitivity, empathy, a sense of fun and abandonment - these are the things that turn me on and most women I know.
I've had amazing sex with men of all shapes and sizes and the most important factor ALWAYS- no matter how 'porn star' it gets, is someone's level of respect and sensitivity.
I believe ultimately we love sex because it connects us and for that incredible moment of climax, we lose ourselves our inhibitions- it liberates us into some quantum explosion of ecstatic oneness.
It's hot, it's awesome and for me and many other strong and beautiful women, this kind of sex has jack shit to do with model looks and penis size.
Thanks for reading,
Bianca Mia x
