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Deeply hurtful, unprofessional, and a complete breach of trust — do not recommend
I am writing this review to warn others about a highly unprofessional and deeply hurtful experience with Thomas.
Over a period of 6 to 7 months, I booked him for 5 or 6 social dates. Throughout this time, the dates went incredibly well. He was fun, engaging, and excellent company. We would go out to dinner, have great conversations, and spend hours cuddling and watching movies together. Because a solid foundation of trust, safety, and comfort had been established over half a year, I finally felt ready and comfortable enough to book and transition into an intimacy session.
I paid his full intimacy rate upfront. However, literally two minutes after the intimacy began, he abruptly stopped, told me there was "no chemistry and he wasn't interested," and simply walked off.
While any independent provider has the right to enforce boundaries, handling it this way after months of building a connection—and taking the intimacy payment—is completely unacceptable. To abruptly walk out after two minutes with a cold excuse showed an immense lack of empathy and zero professionalism.
It was an incredibly cruel and blindsiding thing to do. It left me feeling completely rejected, deeply hurt, and discarded like an object after I had opened up and made myself vulnerable. For someone to build up that level of comfort over months, only to treat me with such cold indifference in a highly intimate moment, is a massive breach of trust. If he felt there was no chemistry, he should have never accepted the intimacy booking or the payment. Off course there was no offer of a refund. I had to endure a ride home with him (should have left him where he was) and I cried the whole way.
Save your time, your money, and your emotional energy. His behavior was completely disrespectful, unprofessional, and deeply damaging.
I am writing this review to warn others about a highly unprofessional and deeply hurtful experience with Thomas.
Over a period of 6 to 7 months, I booked him for 5 or 6 social dates. Throughout this time, the dates went incredibly well. He was fun, engaging, and excellent company. We would go out to dinner, have great conversations, and spend hours cuddling and watching movies together. Because a solid foundation of trust, safety, and comfort had been established over half a year, I finally felt ready and comfortable enough to book and transition into an intimacy session.
I paid his full intimacy rate upfront. However, literally two minutes after the intimacy began, he abruptly stopped, told me there was "no chemistry and he wasn't interested," and simply walked off.
While any independent provider has the right to enforce boundaries, handling it this way after months of building a connection—and taking the intimacy payment—is completely unacceptable. To abruptly walk out after two minutes with a cold excuse showed an immense lack of empathy and zero professionalism.
It was an incredibly cruel and blindsiding thing to do. It left me feeling completely rejected, deeply hurt, and discarded like an object after I had opened up and made myself vulnerable. For someone to build up that level of comfort over months, only to treat me with such cold indifference in a highly intimate moment, is a massive breach of trust. If he felt there was no chemistry, he should have never accepted the intimacy booking or the payment. Off course there was no offer of a refund. I had to endure a ride home with him (should have left him where he was) and I cried the whole way.
Save your time, your money, and your emotional energy. His behavior was completely disrespectful, unprofessional, and deeply damaging.
