So maybe you are a what we call a 'newbie' or maybe more experienced with BDSM, and are itching to have some quality dungeon time, and are nervous about the correct protocols. Here's a basic rundown.

You may be probably a bit anxious about contacting a ProDomme for the first time and wanting to get the interaction off on the right foot, treat it like making any other professional appointment (like your doctor/lawyer etc) I will have expect you to have read my new website thoroughly including my booking page that will answer most of your questions, and checked out my twitter and Insta so you know what I'm about. Bookings are by 'Appointment Only' I'm not at the dungeon all the time. Please do not text 'you available' as BDSM is complex and it will help the booking process if you provide the information I've requested to male sure we are a good match. Requests are wide and varied, and treated with respect (all legal of course)

The industry changes so fast these days. As most Mistresses are now independent, there’s so much that goes on behind the scenes to make things seem effortless for you. There is a reason I ask for certain things for booking process to happen. BDSM is complicated and multi layered, and takes preparation. It takes time to actually book my dungeons and making sure the space/s are actually not pre-booked by someone else, full hair and make up done, fetish outfits sorted, driving there, setting up, getting my head space focused and then, of course, the clean up after. Also, I do not, nor do the majority of Dommes, offer full service, there's other more fun and kinky stuff to do!

I love it when clients take the time to read my booking page, and I do emphasise important things several times on my website to get my point across.

When making contact ensure you
1: Use your manners and be polite and respectful.
2: Introduce yourself.
3: Tell me how you found my details.
4: If you wish to make an appointment state the day, time and duration.
5: If making an inquiry please list a few key interests. State how you will pay your deposit.

Here’s a proper example on how to request a session;

Hello Mistress Serena,

My name is Mark and I came across your website on SB and would like to request a session for 90 mins please. I’m interested in strap on/discipline/bondage/cross dressing and mistress choice. I have had some experience, but would be delighted to session with you. If it would suit, I am free tomorrow afternoon and also the next. Also happy to make a BeemIt deposit as requested, Many thanks, Mark.

And there we go, super easy! I will then text back, or ask you to call to confirm details. Booking process should only take 3-4 messages.

Looking forward to having my wicked way with you,

Mistress Serena.

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