Remain undefined
Should one know themselves?
I guess it's important to know yourself to a certain point but holding yourself to rigid ideas of who you are, what you should feel, what should turn you on, what your passions should be.. it can leave you locked in a little box of your own making.
Breathe deep and be open to the possibilities of life. When you next fuck, really FEEL into your penis.. BE in it, feel every sensation and try new ways to move and pleasure your lover.
Sex doesn't have to be friction oriented
In fact I cum the hardest when my lover stays completely still inside me. Stillness allows me to feel every part of myself, I get so turned on it just pushes me over the edge.
Next time you fuk try something new and see how it feels.
It can just be posturing yourself internally in a different way.
"Trying to define yourself is like trying to bite your own teeth.” ~Alan Watts
Have an amazing day
Pixie x
