Stuff men do to ease the pain of their boring monogamous/monotonous lives....
We all get married at some point because we fall in love,lust,get tired of hunting for sex,bored with life,meet someone who appeals to your lifestyle or has the same goals as you.
Just add in your reason....
BUT
The big problem is it's not such a smart idea because us humans are not biologically programmed to being monogamous.
SO
What happens is you get bored,bogged down by children,asset collecting,saving for your old age etc etc.
Some people cut and run at some point others slump into apathy or internalised rage.
To cope men cheat with other women or men,watch copious amounts of porn,buy toys such as boats,motorbikes, camping equipment,fishing equipment etc etc.
They fill every waking moment with escapism which can be boys weekends drinking,watching sport, gambling,partaking in extreme sport or adrenaline activities,building stuff,making stuff and pretty much anything that fills the empty sex void which comes with a long marriage.
Is that so bad?
No it isn't and in fact is a perfectly adequate coping mechanism.
One thing you can do is add a working girl into the mix,someone kind,nice,pretty,sexy and loveable who will cuddle you,touch you and give you sexual relief.
Start thinking about adding the G experience into your budget it will enrich and enliven you.