Kink Fetish or Fantasy?
Sex is a tricky business made even more tricky when the male needs kinks fetishes or a fantasy to make his cock stand up!
The bottom line is…
There is a difference between enhancing an experience or being essential to it.
And as an aside we can chuck in something that turns you on…someone,a feeling,a place,an outfit or an action that will get you going.
A kink is a general term that includes sexual proclivities that could be seen as unconventional,such as dressing up in costumes,BDSM,roleplay,3somes etc etc .the list is endless really.
BTW conventional means vanilla…..not a bad word because it can just be simple erotic pleasure.
A Fetish is when an object or act is a sexual fixation for example shoes,stockings or being slapped or shouted at.
It’s a bottomless toy box so I won’t make a big list.
A fantasy is usually an idea or thought in your head that turns you on and you can act it out or just keep it in your head to entertain yourself.
BTW most women need a fantasy to get them over the line to orgasm,that’s why they close their eyes normally when having sex!!
Most of this you won’t be able to talk to your mates about whilst at the footy club,golf club or the pub and depending on your relationship with your wife you may not be able to talk to her about it also so I would suggest telling me because that’s what I’m paid to do…enhance an already pleasurable experience and take it to the next level.
