How to Ensure a Smooth and Sexy Booking
The necessity of this blog was brought to my attention the other day and over the week I will be working towards a solution and maybe a effective tool for gentlemen who take the time to prebook and invest a little preparation time into the booking.
Obviously every single human being on this planet is in some way different to another. We all have different likes, preferences, communication skills and desires.
In order to have a booking run in a smooth manner these things need to be communicated.
I myself don't particularly enjoy being given a list of instructions mid way too a booking, it makes it feel completely staged and broken. I also have no idea to know whether you like your oral hard or soft, slow or fast- generally men can display feedback hence encouraging more repeat or non repeat of certain stimuli. I have on a number of occasions though been in a middle of a booking thinking to myself I have 0 feed back I dont know what your enjoying or not, the end result occurs but its super hard without feedback
. Gentlemen as a exercise you could find a female mate and preform oral on her, tell her to remain silent and show no or minimal response to what you are doing, now continue until she climaxes (really not fake to get you too stop doing things that don't work for her). She might get there but how much quicker and more effective would it have been to know how she likes it.
As many men know the more you think about something the more pressure it creates, in order to have effectiveness for a second round etc, you need to relax, stop making so much pressure on yourself. Let the Provider do their job and relax.
Now something I like to Stipulate is give feedback during the booking but do not constantly interrupt the flow for a verbal essay. Some men love some things that others cannot stand. When your arranging a booking if your experience truly matters to you and your seeking to engage in a connective, flowing experience give a brief description of what your looking for. If your favourite thing in the world is having your nipples pinched include this, if your booking a Erotic Desires with me or a Role Play booking with a provider give a brief description of what your looking for- who you are in the role and who you wish theme to be for you.
That way the scene can be prepared for your time.
If you really dislike a woman taking lead please tell me,if you want to have some educational- 'how to make a woman orgasm' time in your booking tell me. I have mastered my body and have taught many men how to pleasure women and about the female organs.
Your time with me could be somewhat limitless in potential. But it does require communication and honesty, if your not comfortable voicing these things while your having a shower or before we hit the sheets message it, most people can express more via writing than speech.
Give feedback, make some noise show what you like and you don't otherwise it is like trying to get a blow up doll to ejaculate as I'm assuming you would know if you tried the above exercise. FYI I am not available to be the starfish for the demonstration I'm too sensitive for that haha.
So in a Summary
1. Before the Booking make it clear what your looking for
2. If something feels good and you want it too continue give feed back
3. If you want slower, faster, more gentle Say so.
4. Try not to go overboard with detailed instructions its only going to bring to reality the situation for you and make it harder for you to slip into the moment
5. Tell your Provider/ companion what really turns you on.
6. If in 69, one way I find works effectively is to shaddow- So if you want faster tempo provide one, want it more slow and gentle go more slow and gentle- it creates a vibe, a sensation and enables the other person to feel the sensation and tempo your seeking. Once they provide that give feedback eg 'yes like that' then you can get to work and see how to make her come while she has you in your zone.
Really hope that Helps some of you out,
I have a new blog I will be writing with some more helpful tips later in the week, stay tuned for that and also Follow me on twitter to stay up to date and participate in my polls. I am working on a project that I am hoping will help men have a more pleasure filled and authentic feeling to their encounters. Don't forget my retirement is approaching quickly.
PreBooking Now for Incalls Fortitude Valley on the Weekend, lets put those skills to practice.
Hugs and Kisses,
Armarni Bulkani
xxooxxoo
