Can you fall in Love having sex? Can you buy compassion?
Well from the title you can see this will be a controversial topic with many varying opinions to mine. Regardless I’m starting to care a little less of what people think and focus more on what I want to say.
Can you fall in love having sex?
In my opinion and experience things tend to occur the other way. I am not saying that the love is necessarily expressed or known before the sex or intimate play.
But I do believe that when you fall in love you will remember the first look and not necessarily want to pull them closer but push them away. We all have different ways of responding to love at the end of the day.
My point being is true romantic love is not one way, it is deeper and more passionate then sex or something you could say. Real love is deep painful and raw. Something we can all feel but a lot choose to ignore. Generally you will know from the first day, it will be like a feeling you see in the movies but not in the obsessive overly sexualised way, it will be perfect in its own messed up imperfect way.
Sex and love, while sex is a way I feel you can use to express love- it is not necessarily something that is needed for expressing or a definition of true romantic love.
Just as sex is not necessarily needed to express true romantic love.
My purpose of posting this is to express somethings on my mind. For some gentlemen it can become hard to see the lines. While each woman in this work is different and we all make our own choices, I myself will never play on a persons feelings. I have to be honest with you and although I care for the gentlemen I spend time with, I will not lie and will not play on your feelings.
I love to take away peoples pain, be the compassionate ear, remind someone they are not alone and help them overcome their fears. But regardless of how much is offered to me, you cannot buy my love or a pass into my personal life.
Can you pay for compassion?
I care for every person who is alive, care even more so with those I spend my time business wise or within my personal life . I am a compassionate type of young woman. Compassion is not a quality you can gain, it is not something you can buy it’s built in to a humans being. So from me you can always expect compassion, I was made this way and this way I will remain. Honesty and compassion is my middle name, so please don’t expect me to lie about much more than my display name.
If you need a compassionate ear or just a person to talk with I do also offer companionship rates I know some people are just looking for a non judgmental person to talk to off the record. Unlike a shrink I don’t record what you say, unlike a friend you don’t need to worry about me repeating what you say. I have been there for people in their darkest hours and I have been there during their happiest days.
I am compassionate and that quality you can only buy from true suppliers. I myself have the sealed, tested stamp of approval and would be more than happy to be your non judgmental ear, possibly a snuggle buddy where you can release some stresses of the day. Find a shrink with the same available extra services at a more competitive rate ;) although I am not licensed I may be your favourite ear and bring the smile back to your face.
The verdict-
True love is not sex- true love is not a one way street. A lot of us will run from it but it is something internally most people will seek. I do wish for everyone to find love and happiness it won’t necessarily happen or have anything to do with what’s in the sheets. And no person has ever and no one will ever buy love or a personal relationship from me. The term gold digging or sugar baby is not for me. My love is not available for sale. And feelings is something I will never treat as a game or something to be played with.
Compassion for sale- yes but only from authentic suppliers. Selflessness and compassion is a quality that cannot be replicated or faked- it also has no use by date. Compassion can be expressed in many ways, sharing, listening, cuddles even genuinely caring about ones day. Compassionate people are a rare find these days. I do offer companionship rates where as a companion o feel I can express my compassionate side. I am not going to top my life off with artificial roses, we have all seen different shades of the same blue. I am compassionate and in my business side of my life or personal too- what ever part of my life you are in I am genuinely interested in listening and helping you change your point of view.
Sorry if some of that is a little deep for you but deep is something I do. I am deep and compassionate, sensual and uniquely me.
I am Armarni Bulkani
