Sacred Sex (Part 5)
Books
1. Dear Lover by David Deida
The female equivalent of ‘The Way of The Superior Man’. This great book talks about a woman’s purpose from a traditional but spiritual perspective, and when the origins of tantric/ sacred sex stem from Tantra, an ANCIENT religion that worships the feminine and female, you may want to take some notes from a good traditional source. David has a lot of great value within the world of sex, and so the word ‘traditional’ should not disgust or scare you. David Talks predominately from a heterosexual viewpoint.
2. Women Don’t Owe You Pretty By Florence
A feminist book. WHAT!?!?! Yeah!! Here is the thing, real feminism is great, what feminists have fought to achieve for females is PHENOMENAL. No longer does a woman have to be a stay at home object on the shelf, she can choose to go out into the world and build her empire if she so chooses, she can choose to have kids or not have kids. Within Australia women will not be paid less due to being female. This all being said men & women are not the same. We do not operate the same. We think differently. We have different hormones and organs. The problem is not feminism the problem is extremists. This conversation is too deep and big for this blog, if you want to talk about it put me on a podcast. I dislike red pills views, and I dislike feminists that say Jordan Peterson is a psychopath. If you want to make ten million dollars you’ll probably listen to a millionaire. To become a high value man of modern society who truly loves the feminine, sometimes you have to shut the fuck up and listen to her. Good book.
3. Come as you are by Emily Nagoski PhD
Currently I am three quarters of the way through this book. It is a book of accepting yourself as a woman and appreciating your own beauty, navigating stress around sex, mood, and trust. This is a great book for women to start learning how to accept themselves; their ‘imperfections’, their turn ons and turn offs, how to trust themselves and their own judgment and much more that I can’t remember off the top of my head. For men; again if you aspire to be a high value man within modern society sometimes you have to listen to the feminine, even if it is to learn her indirect messages, emotional rollercoasters or her need to talk for the sake of talking. She needs to be heard, appreciated, and feel like she matters. Men are from mars, women from Venus, basic stuff. Women are still people, and while they are generally more emotional thinkers than men (excluding 74.52% of today’s men) they still have a brain in between their ears. Learn the feminine, learn the masculine. Good book.
4. Atlas Of the Heart By Brene Brown
A book about healing from trauma. The journey of the spirit is about learning how to let go of that which no longer serves you or brings about negativity to your life. Tantric/ sacred sex can have healing capabilities if done correctly & consciously, studying a little bit about trauma will do you no harm when embarking on a spiritual journey like Tantra; or experiencing the sacred spiritual form of tantric sex
5. Tantric Orgasm for Women By Diana Richardson
Currently listening now and enjoying the information within.
6. The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida.
From a heterosexual point of view women do not want sissy’s. Men do not want to date a boy. This does not mean men have to be violent, aggressive, and trying to fight every guy that looks towards his girl. “The best way to win a war is one without violence” Sun Tzu ‘The Art of War’. This does not mean girls can not play footy, learn how to rebuild a car, or be a tradie. This just means from a spiritual perspective the feminine wants the masculine and the masculine wants the feminine. And there are feminine & masculine qualities in all of us. Most of us lean one way or the other. This is even pointed out early in this book “This could have been called The Way of The Superior Masculine”. This book is a phenomenal book for all. I believe the book has the exact same intellect level of Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus. Practice the basics.
7. Hard Times Create Strong Men By Stefan Aarnio
THIS BOOK CHANGED MY LIFE! THE BEST BOOK I HAVE EVER LISTENED TOO!
Harden up snowflake. Work it out. Grow a pair and deal with your shit. No one cares about you. Tantric/ sacred sex stems from Tantra. Tantra is an ANCIENT religion, therefor the traditional beliefs of MASCULINE & FEMININE are crucial to exploring this area of sex. NOT MAN & WOMEN. MASCULINE & FEMININE. Stefan talks about how the masculine and feminine is in all of us. As we have discussed the FEMININE GENERALLY SPEAKING IN A SEXUAL TERM wants the MASCULINE. I have even had countless people who are interested in the same sex, agree with what I have just said. This book may be hard for some people to swallow, it is direct, it cuts to the point, he talks facts, he is respectful. Like I previously said in the ‘Come As You Are’ review. Learn the feminine. Learn the masculine.
Make deep, full, hearted love.
Sexual educators
My top all-rounder picks are Caitlin Victorious. Esther Perel. David Deida.
