escort diary® of Paz Bizarre: The Art of Touring
Hello deviants,
Unfortunately I've gone ahead and cancelled my Sydney Tour which was set to be Jan 13th-16th.
Touring as a Pro Domme is an art and a science. It requires a meticulous balance of planning, investment, and trust; all before a single session begins. For those unfamiliar with the logistics of touring, let me paint a picture of what goes into each trip and why deposits are not just important but absolutely non-negotiable.
**The Reality of Touring**
When I announce a tour, I’m not simply booking a ticket and showing up in a new city. Behind the scenes, I’m orchestrating a symphony of arrangements (and let me remind you, this is from a neurodivergent person):
Accommodation: Finding a location that’s discreet, comfortable, and suitable for sessions isn’t a quick process. It’s not just about booking a hotel; it’s about ensuring the environment aligns with my standards and offers privacy for both me and my clients.
Travel Logistics: Flights, transportation, and even contingency plans are all part of the equation.
Personal Arrangements: As someone with responsibilities beyond work, I need to arrange care for my neurodivergent children, and multiple pets. Babysitters and dogsitters are not cheap, and they require firm commitments. I also clear my schedule of other work and obligations, which impacts my income outside of touring.
Session Preparation: Each session is bespoke. Whether it’s bringing specific tools, attire, or creating a tailored experience, I dedicate hours to preparation. When I’m on tour, I travel with carefully packed luggage containing everything needed to deliver the unique sessions my clients expect.
Marketing: Announcing tours, replying to inquiries, and screening potential clients takes time and energy. Every inquiry requires vetting to ensure both safety and compatibility.
**The Executive Functioning Required as an AuDHDer**
As an AuDHDer (Autistic and ADHD), touring requires an immense amount of executive functioning. The planning, organising, and juggling of multiple responsibilities can be overwhelming, especially when dealing with the sensory and emotional load of travel. Every step; from booking accommodations to managing schedules, requires deliberate focus and structure. Even minor disruptions can derail the process, making preparation and follow-through a monumental effort. Deposits are essential because they provide the stability and predictability I need to allocate my energy effectively and ensure a smooth experience for everyone involved.
***Why Deposits Are Crucial***
Deposits aren’t just about securing a session; they’re a mutual agreement of trust. They ensure that the significant investments I’ve made for the tour; both financial and emotional; aren’t in vain. When a client flakes, it’s not just my time that’s wasted; it’s an entire cascade of expenses and efforts undone.
For the first time in over a decade of touring, I’ve had to cancel a Sydney tour due to clients being unprepared to commit. This experience has reinforced why deposits are non-negotiable.
They protect both of us:
**For You:
A deposit guarantees your session and prevents someone else from taking your spot. It’s your assurance that I’ll be there, ready to deliver the experience you desire.
**For Me:
It covers initial costs and shows that you respect my time, effort, and the expertise I bring to each session.
**Why You Should Act**
If you’re considering a session with me, understand that touring spots are limited and highly sought after. By hesitating or avoiding a deposit, you risk missing out entirely.
You’ve seen my work, my reputation, and the care I bring to every session.
You’re intrigued, imagining what an unforgettable session could be like.
This is where deposits come in. By committing, you’re taking the final step toward turning your fantasy into reality. Without this step, you remain stuck; and opportunities don’t wait.
***A Note to Potential Clients***
If you’re not prepared to pay a deposit, I urge you not to enquire.
While I understand that life can be unpredictable, my time and energy are finite. Flakiness doesn’t just impact me; it impacts other clients who are serious about booking. Touring is an enormous effort, and mutual respect is key.
For those ready to experience something extraordinary, know that I pour my heart and soul into every session. I create unforgettable moments for those who value the craft and effort behind them. If that’s you, act next time, and let’s make a memorable session together.
Deposits aren’t just a formality; they’re the foundation of a successful, respectful dynamic. Don’t hesitate to reach out if you’re ready to commit. I’m ready to deliver; but only for those who are prepared and committed.
Until next time!
Best Vibes,
Miss Paz Bizarre
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