escort diary® of Paz Bizarre: Not Avoidant, just Autistic- New podcast episode
Hello sluts & deviants
Being autistic, my approach to connections can sometimes be mistaken for avoidant behaviour/attachment style.
I need a lot of space to process interactions, and social dynamics can be draining, especially when they involve unspoken expectations or emotional ambiguity.
I value depth and authenticity in relationships, but I don't always express connection in neurotypical ways. Periods of withdrawal or needing solitude aren’t about pushing people away, but about maintaining balance. My preference for direct communication, discomfort with small talk, and selective social energy can make me seem distant or disinterested when, in reality, I engage best in relationships that allow for autonomy and organic interaction rather than constant engagement.
Autistic connection styles are often misunderstood; what looks like avoidance is usually something else entirely.
In this episode, I unpack how my need for space, direct communication, and selective social energy can come across as distant when, in reality, it’s just how I navigate relationships. From balancing solitude with connection to breaking down unspoken expectations, this conversation explores what’s really happening beneath the surface...
Due to my Sydney tour this weekend, you're getting an early podcast drop! This episode unpacks how autistic connection styles can be mistaken for avoidance; when really, it’s about energy, space, and navigating unspoken expectations.
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