escort diary® of Miss Pleasure Femdom: Why MISS does not do FINDOM
Definition first: Femdom is a man surrendering himself to a woman's control. Findom is a man surrendering his money. Miss offers the first, not the second.
A young man recently told Miss his idea of the perfect findom. He would work seven days a week, and Miss would take every dollar above his living costs.
He meant it as devotion. Miss sees it differently.
The man Miss wants at her feet is a man who looks after himself first. He dresses well. He trains his body. He eats properly. He builds something for his own future, whether that's a mortgage, savings, or a business. A man who neglects himself has nothing real to offer.
Serving Miss should make your life richer, not emptier.
Where money belongs
Of course, a devoted man supports his Mistress. He pays his tribute and comes to see her. He listens to her commands and pleasures her exactly the way she desires. He spoils her with flowers, little surprises, or something from her wishlist. That's a gesture of gratitude, a portion of a well-run life, given with pride.
What Miss will never accept is a man draining himself dry, working himself into the ground with nothing left for his own life. That isn't submission. That's harm, and Miss won't be part of it.
A message to younger men
Build yourself first. Become a man worth owning. And if a woman asks you to drain your savings or go into debt, walk away. She isn't a Mistress. She is someone using you.
MISS
