escort diary® of Amity Addams: Lets Be Honest About Deposits
If you’ve been scammed before, it’s completely understandable to feel cautious. Being careful with your money is normal — and I’m not denying that scams exist. They do, and that’s exactly why doing your own due diligence matters.
For me personally, credibility is visible and verifiable. I’m active on social media, consistently present, reviewed by real clients, and I’ve been established in this space for a long time. All of that exists so clients can feel confident before ever making a booking.
Deposits aren’t about mistrust or taking advantage of anyone — they’re about respecting time, ensuring fairness, and prioritising safety for everyone involved. When a deposit is paid, a booking becomes real. Time is locked in. Preparation begins. Both parties can move forward with confidence.
Deposits are standard across countless industries — hotels, beauty services, photographers, trades, event spaces, and many small businesses.
Any time someone books a specific slot, that time is being held exclusively for them. A deposit simply confirms that commitment and prevents bookings from sitting in a “maybe” zone.
Imagine This Scenario —
You book a time, arrive on schedule, and are ready to enjoy your experience — only to be told the provider has double-booked.
You’re left waiting. Or worse, you miss out entirely.
That situation is frustrating for clients and avoidable for providers. Deposits are what stop that from happening. Once a deposit is received, that time is locked in — no overlap, no uncertainty, no juggling.
What a Deposit Actually Covers —
A booking doesn’t start when you arrive — it starts well before that.
Behind the scenes, your deposit supports:
• Ongoing communication and planning
• Scheduling and time management
• Organising and preparing a room
• Cleaning and resetting before and after
• Physical and mental preparation
That work still happens even if someone cancels or doesn’t show. A deposit ensures that time, energy, and effort are respected.
The “Deposit Scam” Myth —
There’s a common concern that deposits are a way to scam clients. In reality, that logic doesn’t hold up.
Professionals don’t build long-standing, visible businesses just to disappear over a small, traceable payment. Scamming a deposit would instantly destroy reputation, income, and the ability to work.
Established providers rely on consistency, repeat bookings, and trust — deposits support that, they don’t undermine it.
Deposits and Personal Safety —
Meeting new people privately carries real-world risk. When you look at injury and safety statistics for sex workers, it’s clear why extra layers of security matter.
Deposits help confirm intent, accountability, and seriousness before a booking ever takes place. They create a small but meaningful layer of protection that allows me to feel more confident and comfortable showing up fully present for our time together.
That confidence benefits you too.
Due Diligence Goes Both Ways —
You should always feel encouraged to research who you’re booking with, read through policies, and make sure something feels right for you.
At the same time, I’m also making sure a booking feels respectful, legitimate, and safe on my end.
That mutual effort is what leads to smoother, more enjoyable experiences.
Paying a deposit isn’t about jumping through hoops — it’s about alignment.
If you value clear communication, reliability, and a booking that actually runs the way it’s meant to, a deposit shouldn’t feel like an issue. It’s simply confirmation that we’re both committing to the same plan.
If paying a deposit doesn’t feel comfortable for you, that usually means I’m not the right provider for you — and that’s okay. There are plenty of options out there, and everyone deserves to book in a way that feels right for them.
For the right fit, deposits create ease, confidence, and a much better experience for both of us.
