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Never in my life did I believe I would or even could allow myself to experience something like this. I had never been intimate with anyone as an adult nor let anyone close enough to me, to feel loved and safe.
I was abused as a child and sex and any form of intimacy was off limits to me as an adult. I had been working with a sex therapist for almost 2 years and being a virgin in my 30s brought on a lot shame and concern of never being able to have a family of my own or experience safe touch. My therapist was the one who suggested this as a form of exposure therapy, it took over a year to get my head around and Chayse made the process smooth, simple and his kindness is something I will be forever grateful for. He was gentle, took the time to sit with me on the couch, for over an hour to help calm me as I was quite anxious. He continued to check in and make sure I was okay and went along at my pace. No questions were off limits and he made me feel completely safe even though I was feeling very insecure. I still have a lot to process and work through, but I could not be more grateful, appreciative and genuinely thankful to Chayse for opening up part of a new world for me.
Forever thankful.
I was abused as a child and sex and any form of intimacy was off limits to me as an adult. I had been working with a sex therapist for almost 2 years and being a virgin in my 30s brought on a lot shame and concern of never being able to have a family of my own or experience safe touch. My therapist was the one who suggested this as a form of exposure therapy, it took over a year to get my head around and Chayse made the process smooth, simple and his kindness is something I will be forever grateful for. He was gentle, took the time to sit with me on the couch, for over an hour to help calm me as I was quite anxious. He continued to check in and make sure I was okay and went along at my pace. No questions were off limits and he made me feel completely safe even though I was feeling very insecure. I still have a lot to process and work through, but I could not be more grateful, appreciative and genuinely thankful to Chayse for opening up part of a new world for me.
Forever thankful.