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I am 62 and I never, in a million years, thought I'd be writing something like this.
After my marriage ended and life sort of rearranged itself in ways I hadn't planned for, I found myself with this strange and terrifying thing called "space". Haha. Time to actually figure out what I wantd and who I even was, really. That's quite a lot to sit with when you're my age and you've spent most of your life being someone for everyone else. I'm sure other woman can relate.
I spent weeks just reading their website on and off and I kept thinking, this isn't for me because I am too old/out of practice/too big/ too much baggage. But in what I read and the way they talk about what they do and how, I didn't didn't feel like it was excluding me, even though I'm an old girl. So eventually I just reached out. (Terrified)but I did it.
And from that first message, I felt looked after genuinely the whole time. Axel is warm and steady and Evie is very warm and engaging and they are both emotionally intelligent in a way that's quite rare, I think personally in my experience. They both just supported me go at my own pace, and that mattered more than I can say here.
What I came away with is hard to explain without sounding quite dramatic but I felt seen despite all my worries and self image fears and age concerns. None of it disqualified me from anything. The experience was like something had been handed back to me that I didn't even know I'd had, and I genuinely don't have the words for how much that means at this stage of my life. I'm still the same person but I feel gentler and more present and more alive to things, if that makes sense. I didn't expect to walk away from this feeling like there was still so much ahead of me. But I do and I'll be grateful for that for a long time. I'm so, so glad I didn't talk myself out of it. Thank you kindred souls! Xo -O
After my marriage ended and life sort of rearranged itself in ways I hadn't planned for, I found myself with this strange and terrifying thing called "space". Haha. Time to actually figure out what I wantd and who I even was, really. That's quite a lot to sit with when you're my age and you've spent most of your life being someone for everyone else. I'm sure other woman can relate.
I spent weeks just reading their website on and off and I kept thinking, this isn't for me because I am too old/out of practice/too big/ too much baggage. But in what I read and the way they talk about what they do and how, I didn't didn't feel like it was excluding me, even though I'm an old girl. So eventually I just reached out. (Terrified)but I did it.
And from that first message, I felt looked after genuinely the whole time. Axel is warm and steady and Evie is very warm and engaging and they are both emotionally intelligent in a way that's quite rare, I think personally in my experience. They both just supported me go at my own pace, and that mattered more than I can say here.
What I came away with is hard to explain without sounding quite dramatic but I felt seen despite all my worries and self image fears and age concerns. None of it disqualified me from anything. The experience was like something had been handed back to me that I didn't even know I'd had, and I genuinely don't have the words for how much that means at this stage of my life. I'm still the same person but I feel gentler and more present and more alive to things, if that makes sense. I didn't expect to walk away from this feeling like there was still so much ahead of me. But I do and I'll be grateful for that for a long time. I'm so, so glad I didn't talk myself out of it. Thank you kindred souls! Xo -O
