I am fortunate enough to see a lot of couples. About 50% of my clients are male / female duos and many of these are newbies, or couples who are early in their threesome explorations.
Some may have had one previous experience, which was ok, or perhaps which didn’t go quite as well as had been hope...
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Common Client Concerns - body issues
It's not uncommon for me to receive emails that start "Dear Carla, I would love to see you, but I am older / out of shape / disabled" ...you get the drift.
I understand it is daunting approaching a stranger for an intimate service. I have done it and I appreciate the trepidation involved. Will t...
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Couple's Bookings - an early Christmas present :)
I am fortunate to see many couples. Probably 50% of my client base are couples looking to expand their horizons and liven up their relationship with a genuinely bisexual woman. Lucky me! As I say in my advertising, I do really enjoy playing with couples and so don't charge any extra. I understan...
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Connections: long-lasting and other
One of the most rewarding parts of being an escort is the type of connections one develops over the years. I have been fortunate to have three long-running companion relationships. The first two have ended; one gentleman was transferred to the US, the other returned to Japan. This was quite a numb...
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A Thorny Topic - discounts
This seems to be a topic that - informally - comes up a lot from both the gentlemen who book ladies and us escorts. It is also a subject that others shy away from; a blog topic that nobody seems to want to broach. The elephant in the room, so to speak. I wonder why?
From what I know of the indus...
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Full-time versùs Part-time escorting
I have a wonderful group of friends who also escort, or work elsewhere in the sex industry. Over cocktails, good food, or just a night of chatter and frivolity we share thoughts about the pros and cons of full-time versus part-time sex work. Both have long lists of advantages and disadvatages.
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Visiting a city near you, but not touring. What??!!
I decided some time ago that I would not be a touring escort. I take my hat off to ladies who are, but it wouldn't suit me. Mainly because my business model is very low volume. To make money and cover costs on a tour one needs to see a lot of clients and that's not my preferred engagement style. Y...
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The Joy of Mature Clients
I am fortunate to enjoy the privilege of spending time with some delightful people. While there is no 'one preferred type', when it comes to people I love spending time with, I do have a soft spot for mature clients.
What is it that with increasing age makes for a great connection? I think part o...
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Reliable clients v Time wasters
Over the last week or two I have had quite a run of time wasters. Lots of "u free?" messages along with clients booking a time, saying a hotel has been booked and then magically - just before they are to pay a deposit - a family emergency happens. Yeah, sure.
Other time wasting tactics include...
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Back from holidays!
I recently took a few week off to have a break and travel overseas. While I had a wonderful time, I did miss the fun and excitement of my escort 'job'. I also missed the sex! It was three weeks without physical intimacy and I had to warn the gentleman who was my first appointment when back that I c...
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The delicious Ms Aubrey Black
Tanned smooth skin, a fit curvy body and a smile that makes you feel grateful to have been put on this earth. Aubrey Black is the package deal. Killer looks, a knockout body and a top notch brain. Oh and did I mention she could win an Oscar in pussy licking? ;)
Aubrey will be in Melbourne mid Aug...
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Q&A with Carla
**What made you decide to escort?**
I have escorted in other states, both for myself and privately and think it's a wonderful way to a) have sexy fun, b) meet people my path wouldn't cross with otherwise and c) achieve some of my financial goals.
**Why don't you become a full-time sex worker?**
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How to be the 'Perfect' Client
So what makes a great client? Is it looks? Money? Charm? No, none of these. The two things I value most are cleanliness and a respectful nature.
I would hope most adults would understand the need to be squeaky clean just prior to sex, but in case you don't, let me give you some pointers.
You c...
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Avoiding the dreaded timewaster!
I feel very fortunate that since I've been escorting, I've managed to avoid the problem of timewasters that so many girls complain bitterly about.
Thinking about how I have done this, there are a few fundamentals that I suspect are key to my success that I would like to share.
**No last minut...
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How I Set my Rates
The expression 'value-for-money' (VFM), is so subjective, don't you think? I hear clients talk about it and read reviews that mention it and often wonder what criteria is used to measure it. Does VFM capture things like comfort, laughter and mental connection? Or is it about how much fucking time an...
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Delightful clients
I was talking to a lovely client last night about different advertising alternatives and he commented how much he liked Scarlet Blue. I am quite new to the site having joined only a couple of months ago and have to say, all the gentlemen and couples who have found me via SB have been wonderful! The...
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The third wheel. Or not.
It is one of the great joys and privileges of being a private escort when I'm invited to join a couple for intimate fun. Opening up your relationship and allowing a stranger in - albeit in the safest of ways - still takes courage. I find bravery like this quite a turn-on.
I've been asked to join...
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Snuggle up!
Isn't it great weather to snuggle under the covers and get warm and cosy?! Although I love summer, it's not necessary great sex weather. It tends to get really slippery and sweaty in the heat, or you risk freezing your nipples / nuts off under blasting air conditioning. Not ideal.
On the other h...
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Dreaming of a Cuck
I feel very fortunate to have met some wonderful men in my time in this industry. Tradies and Entrepreneurs. Bank Managers and Physios. All types. One thing that always interests me is how many men employed in the legal sector desire pain and humiliation.
Spending time fulfilling a Patron's cuck...
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