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BDSM / Fetish Services explained

Many who are new to the BDSM scene may be unfamiliar with some of the language used in the BDSM and fetish community. Below you will find a list of some of the common terms used in BDSM. This list has been designed to assist new clients in finding out more about BDSM, and can also assist those interested in expanding their knowledge of terms used within the BDSM and fetish community

  • A

  • Adult baby – Adult Babies are adults of all genders who take on the role of playing infants or toddlers. Adult Babies fetishes are often sexual but can be non-sexual, and behaviours may include drinking from a bottle, eating baby food or wearing diapers
  • Age play – Age play is a type of roleplay that involves one or more partners taking on the role of a person of a different age. A person may take on the role of somebody older or younger, and the fetish can be sexual or non-sexual. Age play can sometimes include incestuous elements, such as a father, mother, aunty, uncle, brother or sister
  • Anal sex – Anal sex is the act of penetration of the anus, and is practiced in heterosexual, homosexual and bisexual relationships
  • Anal play – Anal play is a term used for various forms of sexual activity that involve stimulation of the anus. These activities may include anal sex, anal fisting, anal penetration with a finger, anal beads, pegging, and the use of strap-ons, dildos or vibrators
  • Ass worship – Ass worship is a type of worship for those with an ass fetish. Ass worship includes a variety of positions involving the face being buried in the ass of another individual
  • B

  • B & D - B&D stands for bondage and discipline. Bondage restraints can include handcuffs, ropes and gags which are used to restrict the submissive partner’s physical movements. Discipline includes the domination of the submissive partner by their dominant or master, and may include rewards or punishment
  • BDSM - BDSM is an a combination abbreviation for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism. BDSM is a term used to cover a wide range of activities involving fetish and kink, such as bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, and sadomasochism
  • Ball busting - Ball busting is a term used to describe any kind of cock and ball torture that involves the testicles
  • Balloon fetish - Balloon fetish involves an individual being aroused sexually by balloons. A balloon fetish may involve the blowing up of balloons, rubbing them between 2 bodies, popping or lying on the balloons
  • Blindfold - Blindfolds are often used in bondage practices. The party wearing the blindfold submits to their partner, forcing them to rely on their other senses including smell, taste, touch and sound
  • Body worship - Body worship is the practice of worshiping any part of another individuals body, or their entire body. Body worship is often carried out by submissives
  • Bondage - Bondage is the act of one person restraining another for sexual pleasure. Bondage may involve the use of blindfolds, rope, handcuffs, gags, sex furniture and cages
  • Boot worship - Boot worship is closely related to a foot fetish, and in BDSM includes an extreme love and worship of boots. There are many forms of boot worship which may include humiliation, sniffing, licking and cleaning the boots, sucking the boots, or trampling
  • C

  • Caning - Caning is an act that involves the dominant repeatedly striking the submissive with a long cane, usually on the buttocks
  • Cock and ball torture (CBT) - CBT is the torture of the male genitals for sexual gratification, which includes inflicting pain or discomfort on the penis and testicles
  • Corporal punishment - Corporal punishment is a punishment intended to cause physical pain on a submissive or slave in a BDSM relationship. It may include slapping, spanking, paddling, caning, whipping or beating
  • Corsets - Corsets are a key component in sexual fetishism, most notably in BDSM. A submissive may wear a corset laced very tightly, which may restrict movement or breathing A submissive or slave may also be forced to wear a tightly laced corset as a form of punishment or as a restriction
  • Cross dressing - Cross-dressing is a fetish which involves a person wearing the clothing or costumes which are typically associated with that of the opposite sex
  • D

  • Degradation - Degradation or humiliation is a consensual technique used to embarrass, demean, and humiliate the submissive partner in order to produce erotic excitement or sexual arousal
  • Discipline - Discipline training is used by dominants in training to teach a submissive proper behaviour and obedience. It can be found commonly during slave training, but is present in all aspects of a dominant and submissive relationship
  • Dominant - A Dominant (Dom) is a person who takes on the role of the superior, and exercises control over a submissive (sub)
  • Dominatrix - A dominatrix is a woman who takes the dominant role in BDSM activities. A Dominatrix may also be called a Domme, Dom, Dominant or Mistress. A Dominatrix may or may not engage in sex with her submissive
  • Dungeon - The physical place where BDSM activity takes place is usually called a dungeon . A dungeon is a room or area with kink or BDSM equipment and play space
  • E

  • Electro play - Electro play is the practice of using electrical stimulation to the nerves of the body, in order to create different sensations such as sexual stimulation, tickling, or torture
  • F

  • Facesitting - Facesitting is a sexual practice in which a person sits or hovers over a partner's face, often used in Femdom
  • Femdom - Femdom is an abbreviation of Female Dominance, and refers to a BDSM scene or relationship in which a female is the dominant partner. A Dominant female may also be known as a Dominatrix, Domme, Dom, Mistress or Madame.
  • Fetish - A sexual fetish is a fixation or obsession with an object or body part that is not normally considered to be a sexual object. Many common fetishes include feet, shoes, leather or latex, and spanking. Some fetishists may be unable to reach orgasm without their chosen fetish
  • Financial domination - Financial Domination refers to being a financial slave, or to be Dominated in a financial way. The fetish of financial slavery is consensual and is commonly seen between a male submissive and a female dominatrix. Terms such as paypig, moneypig, wallet rape and cash slave are often used to describe financial slaves
  • Fisting - Fisting is used to describe the physical act of full hand penetration (up to the wrist) into the vagina or anus. Fisting requires great care in order to avoid being hurt or injured, and is best carried out by an experienced BDSM professional
  • F

  • Flogging - Flogging, which is also referred to as whipping or caning, is a beating administered with a whip or rod to induce sexual enjoyment. The act of flogging is carried out for the sexual gratification of either one or both parties
  • Foot fetish, foot worship - Foot fetishism refers to a pronounced sexual interest in the feet. A foot fetish is the most common sexual fetish for non-sexual objects or body parts. A foot fetishist may enjoy touching and kissing feet, as well as sucking the toes. Extensions of this fetish may include shoes, high heels and boots, as well as the size, shape, or smell of the foot.
  • Forced BI - Forced bi within the BDSM community is the sexual act whereby a Dominant forces a submissive to engage in some form of sexual activity with a person of the same sex as the submissive. Forced bi is most commonly performed with female Dominants and male submissives
  • Forced feminisation - Forced feminisation is the practice where the dominant partner (of any gender) makes a male submissive take on the gender role of the opposite sex. Also referred to as sissification, the fantasy of forced feminisation is that the submissive partner is being forced into this role against his will. Sissification can include the male submissive being made to wear women's clothing, lingerie or makeup, as well as receiving anal sex from a female Dominatrix using a strap-on (pegging), or penetration from another male
  • Forced masturbation - Forced masturbation is commonly practiced in the BDSM community, and refers to an act of humiliation where the submissive partner is forced to masturbate by the Dominant parter. Forced masturbation may be done in private and can include degrading acts. It can also be carried out in public as a source of public humiliation
  • G

  • Golden shower - Golden showers, also commonly referred to as watersports, is the act of urinating on another person, usually for sexual gratification. Golden showers in BDSM are often used as an act of humiliation
  • H

  • Hair fetish - A hair fetish describes a sexual fixation with hair, commonly centering around hair on the head. A hair fetish can involve facial hair, as well as body hair including chest, armpit and pubic hair. Pubic hair fetishism is in itself a specific type of hair fetish, where a person is sexually attracted to, or becomes sexually aroused by the sight or feel of pubic hair
  • Hardsports - Hardsports is a term that describes a sexual interaction and arousal from feces. Hard sports is also known as scat, scatophilia and brown showers
  • Humiliation - In BDSM, humiliation is a psychological technique that a Dominant may use on a submissive. Humiliation is a subjective issue. What one individual may find humiliating may not be humiliating to the next. Humiliation can take many different forms, such as verbal humiliation (name calling, degradation, verbal belittlement, mockery), physical humiliation (discipline including spanking, caning, beating, whipping and other BDSM activities), and may involve either private or public humiliation
  • I

  • Impact play - Impact play a form of BDSM that involves a person striking or hitting another to cause pain for the sexual gratification of either one or both parties. Impact play may include such activities as spanking, caning, flogging or whipping
  • Interrogation - An interrogation scene is a form of BDSM roleplay in which the Dominant acts out the role of a torturer, while the submissive plays the role of the victim. The torturer may use threats, physical pain, humiliation and other BDSM techniques to extract information from their victim, much like a real life torture scenario. Interrogation scenes may also include tickle torture, orgasm control (erotic sexual denial), spanking, paddling, rape play or verbal degradation
  • L

  • Latex - Latex fetishism or rubber fetishism describes a sexual attraction to people wearing latex clothing or, in some cases, to the outfits themselves. Many fetish outfits worn in the BDSM community are made from latex, such as corsets, latex pants or latex miniskirts
  • Leather - Leather fetishism is a term used to describe a sexual attraction to people wearing leather, or to the garments themselves. Leather is a very popular and widely used material in the BDSM community. Leather is often associated with sex due to the various sexual garments made from the material, including clothing, boots and leather harnesses. Leather is also used to make a wide variety of sex toys, such as paddles and whips
  • M

  • Medical fantasies - Medical fetishism refers to a sexual fetish that is medical or clinical in nature. A hospital or medical scene is often created to act out specific or general medical fetishes. In sexual roleplay, these fetishes may involve a doctor / nurse and patient role play, as well as the use of medical equipment to bring about sexual gratification
  • Mistress - A Mistress is a woman who takes the dominant role in BDSM activities. A Mistress may also be called a Domme, Dom, Dominant or Dominatrix. A Mistress may or may not engage in sex with her submissive
  • Mummification - Mummification in BDSM is an advanced form of bondage where an individual is partially or fully wrapped in materials such as plaster, duct tape, bandages, plastic wrap, a body bag or other such materials. Mummification renders the body completely physically restricted and immobile
  • N

  • Needle play - Needle play is a form of BDSM in which one temporarily pierces the skin with sterile hypodermic or acupuncture needles. Needle play is also often referred to as piercing play or recreational acupuncture. Needle play in the BDSM community can produce an intense natural endorphin high for many hours and can induce orgasm
  • Nipple torture - Nipple torture is a BDSM activity where the dominant partner inflicts pain or intense stimulation on the breasts of the submissive partner. Nipple torture may be carried out by various instruments, such as clamps, pegs, breast bondage, caning, piercing, as well as the use of electricity and temperature (such as wax or ice cubes)
  • P

  • Pantyhose fetish - A pantyhose fetishist is an individual who becomes sexually aroused through either wearing pantyhose, watching other people wear pantyhose, or both. A person with a pantyhose fetish can also commonly have a foot fetish or a shoe fetish
  • Pegging - Pegging is a sexual activity in which a woman wears a strap-on and penetrates a man anally, usually from behind
  • Public exhibitionism - Public exhibitionism is the act of exposing body parts that are usually covered (such as the breasts, buttocks or genital areas) in a public place. Some exhibitionists may get sexually aroused by exposing themselves in public. Other public exhibitionists do so because their Dominant has ordered them to, often for degradation or humiliation
  • R

  • Rope bondage - Rope bondage is bondage involving the use of rope to restrict movement, wrap, suspend, or restrain a person, as part of BDSM activities. There are several techniques of rope bondage, such as spread eagle, chair tied, standing at the cross, and hog tied. A popular form of rope bondage is called Shibari, which is an erotic ancient Japanese artistic form of rope bondage
  • S

  • S&M - S&M, also known as Sadomasochism or SM, refers to the combination of sadism (inflicting pain) and masochism (receiving pain) to produce sexual pleasure and gratification. S&M can range from playful to extreme, physical or mental, in order to induce pain or humiliation
  • Sadistic - A sadist is an individual who derives pleasure or enjoyment from another person’s physical or emotional pain. In BDSM, a sadist becomes sexually aroused or gains sexual gratification by inflicting physical pain, cruelty or humiliation
  • Sensory deprivation - Sensory deprivation is a commonly used practice in BDSM that makes people focus on other senses by depriving them of one or more senses. Temporary removal of the sense of sight is the most common form of sensory deprivation, with the use of blindfolds, masks or hoods. Sensory deprivation can also include depriving a person (often a submissive) of taste, smell, hearing and touch
  • Shibari - Shibari is a rich and erotic art of traditional Japanese rope bondage. Shibari may be used purely for aesthetic purposes, for erotic play, or for suspensions in aerial performances
  • Shoe worship - Shoe worship or boot worship is an extreme love of shoes or boots observed in BDSM practices and female domination circles, and is closely related to a foot fetish. A submissive partner will commonly display foot worship while the Dominant wears the worshiped footwear
  • Sissification - Sissification describes the practice, especially in female dominance, of switching the gender role of a male submissive. Commonly referred to as feminization, sissification may include the male submissive being made to wear women's clothing, lingerie or makeup, as well as adopting feminine mannerisms and postures
  • Sissy - Within the context of BDSM and the BDSM community, a sissy is commonly a male submissive who engages in feminine activities such as dressing like a woman (crossdressing), wearing makeup and taking on the feminine mannerisms and postures
  • Slave - In BDSM, a slave is a person (usually submissive) who consensually relinquishes all of their power to a Dominant partner (Master or Mistress) in a total power exchange relationship. In the BDSM community, slaves are considered to be the property of their Mistresses or Master and must be subservient
  • Slave training - Slave training in the BDSM community involves a consensual power exchange between a Dominant (Master or Mistress) and a submissive (slave). Slave training involves changing the slave's behaviour to please and serve their Mistress or Master. Depending upon behaviour the slave may be rewarded or disciplined. Punishment may include spanking, caning, the use of physical restraints, or other forms of discipline to encourage compliance
  • Slut training - Slut training in BDSM consists of a dominant partner teaching a submissive (usually female) to behave and conduct themselves in a sexually promiscuous or slutty fashion.
  • Smoking fetish - Smoking fetishism is a sexual fetish involving the smoking of tobacco, most commonly cigarettes, cigars and pipes. A smoking fetishist may experience sexual arousal from the observation or imagination of a person smoking
  • Spanking - Spanking in BDSM terminology is the act of spanking another person for the sexual arousal or gratification of either or both parties. Spanking is often done by the hand on bare buttocks, and can also include a variety of objects such as a paddle, whip, or cane
  • Sploshing - Sploshing is a a sexual fetish where one or both parties smear the body with wet messy substances. Popular substances used for sploshing include whipped cream, cake, chocolate sauce, custard, milk and cake batter. sploshing is also known as wet and messy fetish (WAM)
  • Stocking fetish - A stocking fetishist is a person who becomes sexually aroused through either touching or wearing stockings, watching other people wear stockings, or both. A person with a stocking fetish or underwear fetish can also commonly have a foot fetish or a shoe fetish
  • Strap on - A strap-on is a dildo designed to be worn (usually with a harness) by one party during sexual activity. A strap-on dildo is used for many types of sexual activities, such as vaginal sex, anal sex, oral sex. A strap on may be enjoyed by heterosexual, bisexual or gay men receiving anal sex (pegging). Strap ons are also commonly used between two gay or bisexual women
  • Submissive (SUB) - In BDSM, a submissive (also known as a sub) is an individual who submits and willingly gives up some or all control to a Dominant partner. A submissive may also be referred to as a bottom, and the Dominant partner may be referred to as the top
  • Suspension bondage - Suspension bondage is a form of sexual bondage where the bound party is suspended from one or more overhead suspension points, and their body weight is held by suspension ropes, cables or chains. The main effect of suspension bondage is to create a heightened sense of vulnerability and inescapability
  • Switch - In BDSM, a switch is a person who participates in activities sometimes as a top (Dominant), and other times as a bottom (submissive). In most BDSM play, one individual takes the role of the Dominant while the other plays a submissive. A switch is a person that can reverse rolls
  • T

  • Tease and denial - Tease and denial is the act of keeping a person sexually stimulated until they are close to orgasm, then stimulation is stopped, keeping the person on the brink of orgasm
  • Tickling - A person with a tickling fetish becomes sexually aroused by the act of tickling. They may enjoy being held down, tied up, or restrained in some other way to prevent their escape
  • Tie and tease - In BDSM, physical restraints are commonly used to control the orgasm of a partner. Tie and tease involves the tying up of a partner and bringing them to the brink of orgasm by stopping and denying them an orgasm
  • W

  • Watersports - Watersports, also commonly referred to as golden showers, is the act of urinating on another person, usually for sexual gratification. In BDSM services, watersports are often used as an act of humiliation
  • Wax play - Wax Play is a form of sensual interaction in which a person drips warm or hot wax onto their partner’s naked body. Wax play is to introduce a slight burning sensation to the skin, causing a rush of adrenalin which increases arousal
  • Wrestling - Wrestling is a fetish or kink where a Dominant can physically dominate their submissive to let them know who is in charge
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