Escort Diary® of Katija Cortez

Love, or money?

Written on June 12, 2023 at 2:01 pm by Katija Cortez

This week as I sat around my apartment, doing my normal activities - managing the socials, organising bookings; you know, the usual. My phone dinging away with messages from friends, family, clients, but nothing from the person I was hoping to see pop up. In this moment I realised something. We are...
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Diary entry no.4

Written on May 22, 2023 at 3:13 pm by Katija Cortez

Well hello again. I know it has been a while since I have posted a diary entry, but it's been for good reason! So much has been going on the last five and a half months. Things I never thought in my wildest dreams would ever be happening... Before i jump into it all, let's quickly pick up whe...
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Kat vs. Me

Written on January 16, 2023 at 5:35 pm by Katija Cortez

Lately it feels like I'm getting called Kat more than I'm called my real name... And it really has me thinking - Who is Kat? And is she my alias, or my alter-ego? An alias is just another name. Same person, two names. Like a nickname, you could say. Whereas an alter-ego is different, it's having...
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What does a client look like?

Written on January 9, 2023 at 4:09 pm by Katija Cortez

I often get asked by people outside of the SW industry, "so do you just sleep with old, fat, gross, men?" They're always surprised when I tell them, no - it's just everyday people. A common misconception about SW is that you are forced to sleep with the "scum" of society in less than favourable c...
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Diary Entry No.3

Written on January 4, 2023 at 3:30 pm by Katija Cortez

Well well well... It's been an entire year; and what a year it's been. New Years Day marks the anniversary of my one year of being an independent escort. Wow, doesn't time fly? It's crazy to think that not so long ago I spent 14 hours behind a desk everyday. As today is the end of the year, I...
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Podcast & Youtube

Written on January 2, 2023 at 3:47 pm by Katija Cortez

Hello there. My long awaited podcast & youtube channel is officially live! Hear from me and my co-host Markus Wolf, an international sex coach, as we talk about all things sex and the SW industry. Some of the topics we've discussed include dating as a sex worker, tantra and why girls fake or...
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The first few times I was offered money for sex

Written on December 1, 2022 at 3:41 pm by Katija Cortez

It's been a while since I've had a little storytime, so after briefly talking about my first client on this week's podcast, I thought I'd write up in a little more detail about the first few times I was ever offered money for sex (whether I took it or not). As I spoke about on the podcast, it was a...
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Sex workers should be colleagues, not competition.

Written on November 28, 2022 at 8:19 pm by Katija Cortez

I want to touch on something that I think is often overlooked in the sex work industry - in an industry where people are mostly sole traders, why do so many sex workers see each other only as competition, and not colleagues? When I started escorting, I had a fair few friends who did it. I felt li...
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Do escorts get scared at bookings?

Written on November 11, 2022 at 3:13 pm by Katija Cortez

When I first moved out on my own, I made a promise to myself that I would never watch another scary movie. I didn't realise the same rule really should have applied to my new job too... No more scary TV where escorts get murdered. Recently I watched the Jeffrey Dahmer Netflix series and it PROPE...
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The Hannah Montana Effect

Written on November 1, 2022 at 4:15 pm by Katija Cortez

My blog post this week is quite a raw one. Not that they aren't all raw, but this one really explores my psyche about all the contemplations and hesitations that I went through in deciding to finally show my face on here. Spoiler alert: It's the second best decision I've ever made. The first was...
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The Popularity of OnlyFans and Digital Services

Written on October 24, 2022 at 3:33 pm by Katija Cortez

Hello there. Since I'm officially in my second week of starting up my OnlyFans (@katijacortez), I thought it would be fitting to write an OnlyFans related blog post this week! OnlyFans has always fascinated me, and I'm shocked it took so long for something like it to come out. What I love the...
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Diary Entry No.2

Written on October 17, 2022 at 8:54 pm by Katija Cortez

Hello there. If you don’t keep up with my blog or my diaries, last week I started writing actual diary entries in addition to my articles. You know, just about life - my friends, love life, what I’m getting up to, this that and the other :) See below for the link to my second diary post. If yo...
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Has being an escort made me a better flirt?

Written on October 10, 2022 at 9:24 pm by Katija Cortez

I just ordered some pizza up here on the GC, and the delivery guy was SO cute. I so badly wanted to just tell him just how cute he was, but it all happened so quick and I froze. As I walked back upstairs - unvictorious and defeated - it made me think about if my flirting game has changed since b...
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Diary Entry No.1

Written on October 6, 2022 at 7:56 pm by Katija Cortez

Hello there. You don't know me that well, but you're about to. Well, a version of me anyway. I've decided I'm going to be starting some proper diary entries on here. I have a very twisted and convoluted life - there is always so much going on with me, my friends and my family. So I'm sure you...
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Has free love returned?

Written on September 30, 2022 at 3:33 pm by Katija Cortez

It's a sunny day on one of my tours. My phone dings in it's usual chime. "An enquiry, no doubt," I think to myself. I glance down at my phone and raise both eyebrows, as I'm met with a request that I (alarmingly) get more and more these days: "Do you offer natural sex?" Read all my thoughts and r...
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Do escorts sleep in the same beds they work in?

Written on September 19, 2022 at 9:41 pm by Katija Cortez

After being a sex worker for so long sometimes you forget how innocent you used to be before. I so clearly remember the time I stared at my friend like a bambi in headlights, innocent as all, when I first learned that she sleeps in the same bed that she works in. When I first started escorting, I...
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Is sleeping with escorts still so taboo?

Written on September 13, 2022 at 5:57 pm by Katija Cortez

The other week I had a rather interesting conversation with a first time client. Since I started working I guess I felt that sleeping with escorts was a normal thing for men to do... Until this conversation I realised that wasn't so. So I met this client on one of my tours. He was very handsome a...
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Is escorting a means of validation?

Written on September 5, 2022 at 9:52 pm by Katija Cortez

Hello gentlemen. This week's blog post was quite an interesting one. I started the week wanting to dig a little bit into the psyche of an escort. I set out aiming to answer the question "do escorts think they're attractive". I reached out to 5 different escorts that I know personally and aske...
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Do escorts fuck (non-clients) on the first date?

Written on August 31, 2022 at 2:15 pm by Katija Cortez

Hello gentlemen. This week on the Sex & Sydney Blog is about a recent conversation I had with my friends about something in my dating life, which sounded insignificant to me at the time, but it somehow completely shook and divided our entire group... I don't fuck on the first date. So, I recen...
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Do I sleep with every client?

Written on August 22, 2022 at 4:57 am by Katija Cortez

Hello there. I am finally back into writing after my month long absence. I was away in Europe, and I told myself i'd get SO much writing done while I was away.. But as it turned out, my 'being away' turned much more 'vacay' than anything else. It was nice to have a little break though, not going...
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The time I lost my virginity

Written on June 28, 2022 at 6:56 pm by Katija Cortez

Hello there. The last few days have been crazy. I write this from my Singapore hotel suite overlooking the Gardens by the Bay. Not going to lie, this job isn't without it's perks! Just a little over a year ago I was number crunching in a financial services firm, hating my life. Now, I basically g...
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The RGE (Real Girl Experience)

Written on June 26, 2022 at 9:15 pm by Katija Cortez

Hello there. It's been a month since I started my blog and let me tell you, I am loving it! For those of you who aren't familiar with my blog yet, I started a blog about a month ago whereby I discuss sex, dating and escort related topics that i find interesting, or that become apparent to me...
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Why do men pay for sex?

Written on June 14, 2022 at 6:57 pm by Katija Cortez

Since working, i've developed a lot of new pet peeves. The biggest is when I hear people judge clients, which is plastered all over their face anytime someone asks, "what kind of guy pays for sex?" This question is almost always asked by friends of mine who aren't in the industry. I hate when peo...
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Do Escorts Have Recreational Sex?

Written on June 6, 2022 at 4:14 pm by Katija Cortez

As my first official post, the pressure is definitely on to make it a good one! So I thought I would touch on the thing that I get asked the most - Do I have recreational sex? The short answer is... HELL YES! The second thing people then ask is, do I still enjoy sex? Again, that is a big...
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Prologue

Written on June 1, 2022 at 6:37 pm by Katija Cortez

Hello there. I'm thrilled to be able to be finally starting this blog. It's been on my to-do list for too long (probably years), but as we all know - life tends to get in the way. Let me start with telling you a little bit more about me. I am born and raised in Sydney. Sydney is and always...
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