Guide to your first escort experience
Just like your first ever date or your first ever kiss, your first time to encounter a erotic experience with a escort is sure to cause your heart to race in and anticipation.
Writing this in hopes too ease gentlemen through their first contact experience and also a guide on what your first time may be like and some typical experiences that you may encounter during your first encounter with a high end escort.
The search...
When first seeking your first experience I highly recommend looking through trusted and more classy booking sites such as scarlet blue as it takes a great deal of time and substance to create a SB account. The more substance and flare a profile displays generally ensures you how much effort and preparation the escort will put into you’re encounter.
You found your lady...
Great! It’s a hard search sometimes as we all have so many different preferences and things we look for. Now you found her Don’t loose her...
Save her profile or reach out and connect, when you do this follow her instructions in the contact area of her profile- some lady’s including myself greatly dislike non-scheduled calls. When you contact include your first name, where your located and when you are seeking company. Also include your expectations and a little about yourself- sometimes we can receive multiple enquiries for the same
Date and time. I myself seperate messages and enquiries based on manners, information and intelligence.
Your concerned about privacy..
Most Escorts will require a deposit, form of ID, proof of address or employment. Some require all or a few of those mentioned, this is for safety and to protect our well being and buisness. I generally find me. With higher profiles are more readily to supply screening information as they are aware of the lengths of efforts in running successful buisnesses and reputations. Understand a ladies screening requirements before seeking a booking with her and comply with them for in most cases a more relaxed and greatful encounter. Most like myself delete this information straight after our encounter.
If your worried about replies please include a time frame of which is suitable or a alternative contact if needed to arrange a advance booking.
It’s booking time...
Unless your made of steel you will probably be nervous, a beautiful lady just for you and willing- that thought alone can make some strong men weak. I recommend 2 hours for a reason, some time before the bedroom it is good generally to talk like humans, too wipe away some smoke in mirrors and for you to get to know the person your about to get very intimate with. Some men are fine but so many on their first ever experience can feel emotions that they cannot put their finger on. This is normal and I find bookings that have that break the ice time in the beginning helps a man relax and understand that this is completely normal.
In our busy lived and culture in Australia so many people find their lives lacking sex, aswell as intimacy that is where escorts come in to create a safe place, where you in most cases remove the risk of impacting your private life- I say most because generally the choosing reputable escorts is what increases your safety and Discretion.
Get ready...
have a shower, deodorant and make yourself presentable if your having a outcall (she’s coming to you) have the bedroom prepared, neat and tidy and for me I Love mood lighting- I hate to squint my eyes when I’m on my back haha- but honestly it helps low volume music- my preference dance/vocal trace or instrumental I do not like love music around and I find that can be distracting for gentlemen to and can be bad for the thought process.
Enjoy your time together respect her boundaries and she will treat you like a king and with uttermost respect.
When things are over and done...
If it’s a outcall offer a fresh towel and shower (yes this needs to be written You may need to do the laundry). Offer a water or ask if she needs anything while she freshens. If you have special requests or anything for future arrangements mention it now. If you want to leave a nice review ask how much of the experience your escort is happy with you disclosing especially if you wish to see them again.
Chances are you enjoyed your time if you took your time and selected your escort if you had a case of the ‘nerves’ this is totally normal and will go away on your next encounter, if you didn’t have some ‘chill out’ time in the beginning this could have been the reason. Try two hours or more next time or try to make your experience more raunchy and different to what your used to in your day to day life.
Hope I helped some nervous but great guys out there.
First impressions count
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Armarni Bulkani
