People are usually diligent when it comes to their financial investments. I think we should be paying as much attention to our emotional investments: the people we connect with.It's weird - we spend so much of our time fretting over income and bank account balances. But when we go home at the end of the day, we take the things that really matter for granted: connecting with friends and family, furthering our hobbies, doing the stuff that inspires us.Nobody says on their deathbed, 'I wish I'd worked more.' Rather, people say, 'I wish I'd taken that trip to Peru,' or, 'I wish I'd asked that girl out in high school.' This is why I often write that sex isn't trivial. Our emotional lives are a huge part of who we are - and there's nothing more emotional than being sexually intimate with another human being. Getting laid is not just about recreation, it's also a way to experience the world and the people in it.People spend hours consulting with their accountants and financial advisers. But when it comes to sex, we often 'go for it' without thinking too much about what we're doing. I remember a client I once had, who wanted to make a booking but had very little idea of what he actually wa...

Boobs: everybody loves them, but they're distracting.You know what I'm talking about, don't you? If you don't, there's an easy way to show you what I mean. First, open your web browser and go to scarletblue.com.au Second, click the link for your state at the top of the page, and your city from the sub-menu. The result: a webpage filled with thumbnail photos of every escort available in your location. If you scroll down the page, you'll see every type of body imaginable. Beautiful hair, beautiful lingerie, seductive smiles... and boobs.It's overwhelming. It's like going to the store for a carton of milk and getting stuck in the chocolate aisle: yes, you came looking for something specific, but it's difficult to concentrate on finding it when you're surrounded by so many other tempting options!This is the conundrum every client must confront when they set out to find their perfect escort match.I received an email yesterday from a lovely guy in Sydney. He wrote, "I'd like to book time with a lady who fits a certain, assertive personality type but I'm not great at communicating what I mean, and it can be a real challenge interpreting ads." It's a valid concern - the success o...