I’d like to have a conversation with you about penis size.It comes up in pillow talk with my clients all the time.  Some men hint at feeling inadequate, and some ask what I think outright. It has always been fascinating to me that men are so concerned with the size of their penises.There is no real equivalent for women – for us, feeling sexually accomplished or sexually inferior depends on a number of physical and mental attributes. We don’t feel like our sexual prowess is judged mainly by the size of our boobs or bits. However for some reason, size seems to be an overriding concern for you guys!I had a conversation with a client this week who criticised his (perfectly adequate) penis and asked me for an honest opinion. When I said that he was fine, he confessed to being worried that I was ‘just saying that’, as though there is some sort of female conspiracy to tell all small-penised men that they’re okay while really we’re laughing on the inside.I fail to connect with the ‘penis size’ issue in a really big way. It’s always puzzled me that such importance is attached to a physical measurement rather than considering the ‘bigger picture’ of a sexual encounter. But whenever I tr...

I can’t speak for anyone else, but personally I have found that my life as an escort has included a few distinct stages.The first stage – when I started working in the industry – was one of fascination. I found the sex industry an exotic and exciting place. Everything was new and it was thrilling to become part of something that seems mysterious to most people. I found it a bit of a turn on!  Secondly, I began to realise what a fantastic, empowering job escorting can be. I couldn’t wait to tell everyone about it. I was passionate about my job and believed (as I still believe) that sex work is not only important but crucial for society to function smoothly. The opportunity to help others was a big self-esteem boost for me.The third stage – sex work is work. I value myself as a businesswoman. I admit I might have taken myself just a little too seriously during this stage, but so do a lot of people in business! Making a living and growing my client base became a really big deal. It was also important to provide myself with time outside of work to develop my other interests, to stay happy and keep enjoying my job.I feel that my life as an escort has paralleled my life in general....