diary of male escort Lexx Soule: Sacred Sex (Part 2)
My experiences
I have only had two tantric sex sessions in my life. For me, a real tantric session is an entire day of love making, an entire day of slow dancing with each other physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. A spotless clean environment, a mind emptied of everything except the person I have the pleasure of making love with. She doesn’t need to think about anything and does not feel rushed. she feels cherished, she feels beautiful, she feels like a goddess, she feels loved. As the leader I am unconcerned with time and I go to the part of the soul that has a deep desire to care & nurture for someone – the inner masculine that thrives on love. This is part of the reason why I will not offer a complete tantric service to clients unless I am forty-years of age, decided on being a bachelor for the rest of my life, and have REAL yoga & tantric certificates. This is my own personal enjoyment, my own personal gift, and is not something I want to share with just anybody. This being said there is one person who offers sacred sexual services who piques my interest, and unless I have the partner I desire to explore this style of sex with, I am interested to see how a transactional tantric experience would feel for the emotions & soul. I may very well have slow, deep, passionate, sensual sex with someone, I appreciate the female body, the human body in of itself is a piece of art to be admired. But to provide a full tantric experience I have to know a great deal about you and who you are. Because even within my own personal experiences there are a couple minor negative memories connotated to it.
What is sexual energy?
What is sexual energy?!?! Simply put sexual energy is our life energy, it’s our libido, our estrogen & our testosterone, our dopamine, our focus, our clarity. Sexual energy is the energy that professional fighters use when they engage in a competition. Sexual energy is the energy women use to glide through life instead of walk. Sexual energy is the energy a man harnesses to desire and satisfy his woman. Sexual energy is what a woman harnesses to seduce her man into a world of pleasure. When you have more sexual energy you are more focused, you are clearer with your thoughts, you are stronger, and you are more appealing. Just like everything else that holds energy, you can add more to it or you can deplete it. You can deplete this energy through consumption of bad foods, not exercising, not moving the body or stretching, masturbating excessively. You can create & store this energy by consuming good healthy food such as nuts, fruits, vegetables and non-processed meat; moving your body and stretching it – go for a walk in the sun, start yoga, palates, martial arts are excellent for sexual energy; and seaman retention.
It’s common knowledge that steak, broccoli, carrots, brussel sprouts, and mashed potato is more beneficial for you than a large double quarter pounder meal with extra pickles, extra onion, and an orange juice. It’s common knowledge that moving your body is essential for healthy joints and bones. It’s common knowledge that receiving sunlight correctly is healthy. Martial arts like JuJitsu, boxing, and kick boxing work wonders for your mental & sexual health. All of this is basic, simple, common knowledge you learn when you begin studying subjects such as health, wellbeing & sexual health. All the healthier choices give you more energy. One of the biggest ways to deplete your energy is excessive masturbation & porn consumption. At the time of writing this I have given up porn for good. And yes I still do my solo penis exercises. I thought that I would need the extra stimulation to jelq my cock or do weighted kegal exercises but I was wrong. Thanks to a good diet, everyday supplements, and water; I can use my mind to do what I need to do. As an ex-porn addict (up to four times a day), I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that masturbating for a ‘stress release’ or to ‘just blow your load’ depletes your energy. Masturbating of any sort to completion will drain & deplete your energy. When you learn how to transmute the sexual energy that you are about to flush down the toilet or gift your vibrator, you will start to see incredible results in your mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual world.
Sexual transmutation or seamen retention is a practice where you with strain yourself from ejaculating. Doing seamen retention alone can be done by avoiding masturbating altogether which is the easiest method, or when you do masturbate you do so without porn and do not orgasm, this is what sexual educators call edging. When you put the porn down and learn to pleasure yourself with your own thoughts you can begin to explore your body with a lot more detail, finding out what other sensations you enjoy. You might find pleasure in running your hands through your hair, or gracing the bottom of your feet, or asphyxiating yourself; you may find pleasure in tapping & smacking your balls as a man or breasts as a woman; things I can guarantee 99% of porn consumers would not do when they have a screen in front of them that contains high intensity porn. When you put the screen down your focus is on yourself not the people on the screen, this allows yourself the brain capacity and room to breathe deeply, explore yourself, and take control of your orgasm. Should you be practicing sexual transmutation with a partner your mostly like not going to masturbate at all unless mutually practiced together or extreme scenarios where you are travelling afar and are forced to have digital sex. Should you have a partner I advise against solo masturbation most of the time. So yes, as a couple practicing transmutation you can still have sex, neither of you come, and you both learn to control yourself. And while there are heaps of people who say blue balls will give you cancer, blue balls are bad for you; there are an equal amount of studies and papers that say delaying your ejaculation will not do any harm and can even be beneficial for you, providing you redirect the energy. When you have real sex with a partner it is easy to direct the energy away from your erogenous zone, just cuddle for ten minutes and gift the other person some affection. The energy from your erogenous zones now has a pathway to your heart, which is then pumped to the brain, which connects to the soul, which fuels positive emotions. Compared to artificial porn, there is no way on any playing field that the energy from your erogenous zone is going back through your heart. Now look I am not a health professional so the information above is just from my perspective, if you need porn in order to get things going, I have no understanding and I cannot comment; All I know is that from my experiences and my knowledge that you will not transmute sexual energy consuming porn. Should you be practicing transmutation and still masturbating without any added artificial stimulation, there are multiple ways that you can redirect the energy from your erogenous zone to other parts of your body. Because when you are masturbating with nothing but your mind you will be much more conscious and sensitive to other parts of the body. When you are consuming porn your attention will be on the sexy, perverted, naughty things of your screen. Should you practice transmutation and seamen retention it is at your own accord, and I hold no liability at all! I shouldn’t have to type that last sentence but I must.
I learnt and attest to this piece of knowledge that I acquired a few years ago from a pickup artist coach, now industry podcast host ‘Marcus Wolf’. If you have a partner or play mate, and you tell her that she is not allowed to have your come because you’re transmuting for a month, she will go ballistic for you. *GENERALISATION INCOMING. Women like seeing a man come. She wants to get off too, that is very important (sometimes); but women thoroughly enjoy seeing a man ejaculate for them. They are that hot or that good at what they are doing that they can make their man come. So when you say, “No babe I’m not coming for a month” you may have a little bit of war on your hands because she wants that hot load of spume out of your ball sack. It is incredible to see the effects that happen when you refrain from ejaculating.
Let’s use the quote from above
Making love is like inflating a ballon. Having an orgasm is live popping the balloon. But if you finish without an orgasm, you are like a balloon that takes several days to gradually deflate. Leaving you much longer to enjoy that inflated feeling.
~ Testimony from the book ‘Cupid Poisoned arrow’
