diary of male escort Lexx Soule: Sacred Sex (Part 1)
The power to make love which man alone possess distinguishes him from the rest of the animal species. However, When he misuses this unique creative gift he taps back into his animal past into the mechanical animal drive, and masturbates or mates without love. He is then unhappy.
~ Barry Long Tantric teacher
Orgasm sets in motion a cascade of programmed neurochemical events, which may continue for approximately two weeks. They change how we feel and perceive the world around us, especially our partners.
~ Marina Robinson
Temptation is fire. Triumph over temptation is light
~ Samael Aun Woer
Making love is like inflating a ballon. Having an orgasm is like popping the balloon. But if you finish without an orgasm, you are like a balloon that takes several days to gradually deflate. Leaving you much longer to enjoy that inflated feeling.
~ Testimony from the book ‘Cupid Poisoned arrow’
Today’s blog we will be discussing Tantric/ sacred sex. Educating you on some of the basics around sacred sex, some of the misconceptions, what sexual energy is, and what a sacred sex session may look like. At the conclusion of this blog will be a small list of videos and books that I have consolidated with previous knowledge and experience to write this blog. I highly recommend having some fun and creating your own little research project, before creating a beautiful tantric/ sacred sex session with an intimate partner. Just like with the subject of BDSM, tantric/ sacred sex is a powerful form of sexual intercourse. Do not be confused between TANTRA & tantric sex they are two separate things. As we will discuss in small detail TANTRA is an ancient Indian religion and spiritual way of life that stems from Buddhist & Hinduist beliefs; Tantric/ sacred sex is a very deep form of love making that if done correctly - or incorrectly; will pair the souls together. While Tantra and tantric/ sacred sex are two completely different things, the two are also closely tied together. Without being a guru or certified practitioner of Tantra and tantric/ sacred sex, I may not always phrase everything correctly. I am an entry level student of this practice and so the information is just of a general nature around the subject of Tantra and tantric/ sacred sex. This blog has been written and interpreted from a male heterosexual view.
If you think BDSM is the perfect escape for narcissists to release their tendencies to control, manipulate, and abuse someone. Wait until you realise the strength of real, deep, pure love that tantric love making, and sacred sex can bring. The depth and power that is found within tantric sex & sacred sex is extremely alluring! It is love, it is powerful! Obviously if you have any prior knowledge of real tantric/ sacred sex, or even the subject of Tantra as a whole, you would know that the previous paragraph is the furthest thing from what Tantra represents, and what Tantric sex is about. Tantra is love; pure, unfiltered, deep love.
The word Tantra is thrown around like internet coaches selling you their ‘life changing’ course. “Tantra is free sexual liberation, express yourself to the world, have massive orgies, and have sex with me to also become a Tantra master”; just how the coach will say, “You just have to believe in yourself, sell your car, divorce the wife, and buy my course that I pay actors in the room to sign up for”.
Tantra is a religious/ spiritual practice & belief system from ancient India that worshipped the power of the feminine, the physical beauty of the female, her spiritual intellect, her life-giving capabilities, and had goddesses who believers of this faith worshipped. It is a sub-religion of the Buddhist and Hindu belief systems. To know what REAL TANTRA is, you will be par-taking in religious studies. “So if it’s basically bible studies how did sex become intertwined so deeply?” Great question. I could be wrong here, but all religions place importance on sex, it’s just the beliefs around sex that complicate some people’s beliefs. Sex is vital to the creation of life. Every religion, including satanists know this.
I’m going to take a guess that you are not a test tube baby, if you’re reading this from the year 2040 maybe another story. Even then, unless the sperm was artificially created, a test tube baby would have been created through an element of sex. Masturbation. Sex is more than just intercourse.
Because of the poor sexual education here in Australia (Maybe it has changed) most people do not know or understand that sex is so much more then just cunnilingus, a blow job, and penetration. And until I became an escort I did not have this deeper understanding of what sex really is either. I had the basics, and knew the importance of sex, but had no deep appreciation for the WHOLE experience of sex. I now understand why masturbating daily for no reason other than to ‘release stress’ is a waste of energy. Using a vibrator every time you want to flick the bean yourself can make stimulation from another human less enjoyable. Understanding that a lot of sexual health problems can be fixed. Learning about the importance of sexual health from the perspective of the foods and supplements you consume. Learning that a man can grow his penis. Learning that we all have unique parts of our body that turn us on or off, for example one person loves having their ear lobe played, nibbled, and blown on; while another person will tell you to never touch their ear. How to have good communication around sex. The variety of reasons someone may use an escort service. The list goes on, and on, and on, and on. The conversation of sex is just like religion; what type of sex are we talking about, what topic of sex are we discussing, what are your values around sex, are you going to respect my view of sex, and so forth. That being said sex should be a lot more comfortable to talk than religion because we as humans can no believe in a religion if we do not have sex. Unless we create artificial sperm and use artificial sperm to create life we need sex to procreate. If nobody had sex and no babies were created anymore we would slowly die as a species, what happens when we are all dead, the belief of God(s) and higher beings no longer exists in our minds- those who still have their soul may be moved onto the next part of the simulation. And additionally, I do not believe we should be screaming about sex at the top of our lungs on the train or at the coffee shop, not because it is taboo, but because it does hold sacred significance to some people. For example, Christians are no against sex, they just believe you should be disciplined with sex, and as I have learnt withholding sex until marriage holds a lot of power for a couple, and I respect couples who stand by this belief and strengthen other parts of the relationship first. That being said, personally I will not be waiting for marriage to have sex – well I can’t I’m a SEX WORKER. A dirty, unintelligent, man whore. Some people also do not need or want to hear that you were hung from a ceiling by the dungeon master/ mistress and whipped every time you forgot what you were meant to remember. They do not want to hear you talk about the milk that just oozed out of your body as your pussy became his personal fuck hole. So while you should feel comfortable to have a room level conversation about the subject of sex, always be mindful of your surroundings, there is a time and place.
Sex is more sacred for most women. Sex is what allows them to create life. From carrying the fetus, nurturing a child inside of them for nine months, the birth experience, then the breast feeding. Sex from this perspective creates a much more sacred experience for the female. So for a religion that worships the woman it would be only fitting that the sacred practice, the scared meditation of deep, deep love making has a high level of importance. Though as we have evolved and share love, and practice sacred sex without the necessity of reproducing I believe that sex can be and is sacred for both man & woman – providing that reproduction is not a part of the equation; otherwise spiritually sex holds much more significance for the woman.
