Anti Discrimination , Safety and Protection for the future of working girls
It has come to my attention for many years working girls are a subject to target in this industry . I feel after all my experiences after i have been through that i must take action and seek as much guidance and education as possible so i can remain ahead of the game and finally retire without the burden of everything I’ve worked for being destroyed. Plus to share my experiences for other women to not experience or at least know exactly what to do.
Many of us women do not speak up because we are discriminated by what we do which is a Legal practice in Australia.
I have been in circumstances where no matter what road i take it is eventually shut on me Like a no through road .
Well, i wont stand for this and changes must be made to break those no through roads and successfully achieve the goals us working girls strive for in the first place wanting to serve the best of men.
I could share a little background details about me but id rather skip that and get straight to the point and perhaps my next entry can be about my journey and how it all began entering the industry. I have a International Modelling background but chose the industry not just for money but purely the company and entertainment that comes naturally for me to give gentlemen.
I thrive when men require me and when pleasure is involved my brain sends signals that not many can relate to. My chemistry is wired in a way that not the everyday woman may understand and i respect that as we are all made differently. That is the Beauty of humanity.
Lets get to point here of why i am here today wanting to make this entry .
New Women need to know when they step into this industry many things . At first your phone will blast with over 200 inquiries a day like myself when i had first started to the point i threw my phone in the sheer frustration of not being able to handle every inquiry . This is going back many years now and let me say ALOT has changed since those days . Today now we are facing so many scams , stalkers , predators, drugs and major breach of our privacy, smeer campaigned , defamation, discrimination, violence , Fraud , sexual assault and even death but that’s not just in the Adult Entertainment its all over Australia in other business and people yet us women are more exposed to this danger because we attract the good and the bad.
New women I can’t distress enough to never trust to much as i have but even if you still keep that barrier professionally you still will need to learn the skills how to connect in a savy way while profiling and trusting your inner self the most.Especially to have your dear clients return.
When a client makes an inquiry really read how they ask you the questions , what they request being a first time inquiry . Never just think of the money because i swear when you compromise your gut feeling you have just sold apart of yourself . You can still keep your integrity intact while providing sexual services. There is this whole stigma around working girls that is said “ we sell out souls” that is just rubbish if they say that then the rest of humanity all have a price in what they do.
If the inquiry is rude or unprofessional BLOCK but having said that it can be tricky because sometimes the most educated can be a psychopath so you really need to see the difference between a excessive message to what is balanced. Us as women have been gifted with Intuition much more then men it is a fact . Follow it ! If you do not know how to try taking Yoga classes , meditation to awake your inner self . Take care of yourself .
Never leave your personal belongings laying around thinking they are trustworthy no matter how long you have seen a client . Phone devices are the number 1 concern for where it all can come.
Technology is the number 1 reason when used bad is our worst downfall.
I have experienced my devices broken into finding out all my personal information leaked , exposed and used on dodgy porn websites .
They access my email all linked to business advertising, change your passwords and this is when the madness begins . You will find your days changing everything all over again and again and again . Losing income , sleep , you don’t eat and in my case i was homeless having no real solid base to recap and fix everything fast !
Your like a dog chasing your tail going around in circles while these guys sit back watching laughing thinking its ok to do this because they think we deserve it which is discrimination. I try to understand why there are men like this in the world and my conclusion is to make us that 5 step ahead , sharper and stronger . I thank these losers because it brings you a new way to adapt and gain strength coming back harder.
When you are an attractive woman earning a decent income and walk the streets instantly we are judged & Discriminated. We are mocked , we have people in the public scream out “ WHORE” if we have been a subject exposed and anything we truly do is not taken seriously. Our rights are pretty much trampled upon in society where really we are vulnerable and should be protected not criminalised or portrayed as some gold digger that has no heart.
There are some good working girls and some pretty bad ones hence it can give us a bad reputation for all. Our job here is not respected enough because people are not really aware of the effort and love we give. You would be surprised how beautiful some of us women in the heart and soul are. The type where we would take care of anyone injured on the street , the type to put out a fire if we seen one. The type to love humanity and nature , the type to want to heal and nurture others . Role playing and other type of services is entertainment it does not define who we really are deep down. Not all working girls have light but some of us do and we are rare which gives us the reason why we share that to others to make their days better. We also contribute to society in small businesses financially and help the economy grow.
It’s not just a use and abuse situation. It is a respectable exchange for busy men who do not have the time to commit or men who are divorced needing that extra company . There are all kinds of men who require our attention but again this is another topic.
If we take our job serious enough as a Career we pay our taxes so we can invest and we shouldn’t be made to feel like we are not accepted just because of our work.
Our safety can be measured by how smart we are intunned and it will take some time to gain this for Some because majority of women are to consumed in their own worlds of money and spending not really thinking about the bigger picture or for some like myself i had no time to think , i was running on survival everyday . I am so happy to finally not be in that position and to not be afraid and reach out . Finally karma came for me after everything I endured i now rest my head in a safe place where i can work from and manage to save without having to worry where i ll be dealing with the predators swimming around lurking . I had to navigate my way through all the snakes and ladders so you can imagine the kind of instincts i now have. Though i slipped recently , this is what led me to now taking action because i want this to be the LAST TIME ever i experience a potential threat in my business and I’m going to do everything in my power to put a end to it once and for all and for the future of women who want to embrace this industry. My main concern are migrants who can not speak English or understand and extremely young women who may of came from a broken home and wears her heart on her sleeve. If you are very attractive you can be targeted because its a means of income for the predator to exploit you.
I will be attending the National Forum for working girls this and and im going to network my butt off and meet the best of women involved in the Adult Education sect. I highly advise all working girls to join the Scarlett Alliance in NSW i wish i had of done this sooner .
If this reaches any Working girls heart and feel as through you are experiencing a world you feel trapped in please reach out to me or sign up with SA or contact Swop NSW. I am considering to write and publish a book for tools and useful information that every girl who wants to thrive should read. It will be about many topics including wise intel on not sacrificing being a subject of abuse for an income. This will help you understand deeper that fortune will return in better healthier ways. To not take advantage of Clients as the extreme karma is universal and you will end up in far worse situations. How to take care of your clients and tips that will gain regulars . Security and protection.
I may even consider to become a manger and start a service where women can come to me personally and im happy to guide through as a mentor FREE !
I want the future of women to be safe and be equipped with the best possible skills so we have happy men and a happy life.
