The Perfect (first) Date
I often get asked - what is your ideal date and/or booking?
When it comes with meeting new clients in particular, they are often nervous and want to know what things I enjoy, and what makes for a perfect date or booking together. I really value the fact that most gents want our time together to be amazing for me just as much as I want that for them, so I thought Id give you fellas a hint or two about what, to me, makes our time together stand out.
Generally, having a bit longer to spend together is a good start. Although I love a good quickie 1 hour booking, I do enjoy being able to relax and take my time, especially when meeting someone new. I think its really important to get to know each other and build rapport before we start undressing each other - this way Ill have a sense of what sort of experience you are wanting, and you'll have time to feel comfortable with me and ready to really let yourself go in my company. Ill always welcome you into my space, offer you a drink, and sit and have a chat with you to ease your nerves, and to have the most natural encounter possible. (However if you are roaring to go I am happy to start our steamy session immediately, but communication is key.)
I love having a flirt with you over a drink, and when the time feels right leaning in for a kiss. Starting things off slowly is great, letting tension build naturally and then once we cant hold back THEN its time to move into the bedroom. Its imperative that you are lovely and clean (as I will be for you), so best for you to jump into the shower while I get ready for you in the bedroom. At that point, I love long sensual kisses, attention paid to my bountiful breasts, and I love oral on me if it is gentle (no rough tongues or fingers, take it easy down there), and I will most happily return the favour. I LOVE giving oral, I genuinely enjoy it, so thats always a fun part of our time together. Then obviously, the main course! Varied, fun, passionate intercourse is what makes a booking great. Communication is so important, as is checking in every now and then, or if you have something a bit different you would like, be brave and ASK! Remember - if you have worked in this industry for longer than a year (its been waaaay longer for me), then you have heard everything at least once, so there will be no judgement on my end, just a willingness to explore with you in a safe space.
Having said all of this, if I am honest, my ultimate is to have a dinner/lunch date with you. Going out in public, sharing a meal and some lovely wine or bubbles and then knowing that we are going back to my place (or yours) to get naked and sweaty feels really authentic to me - like a sexy date with a lovely man I met randomly whilst getting coffee. I do understand though that not everyone has the means or the time to do this, although if this is something you really want to explore with me, always shoot me a polite text and ask if I can do a bit of a package reduction for you (ps - more likely to succeed here if you book way in advance, and are beautifully polite).
Basically - the key to an outstanding first encounter is relax, communicate what you do/don't like in a polite manner, bring your sense of humour, and, if you can, book a little longer. Also - get ready for one of the most exhilarating experiences of your life ; )
In anticipation,
Sassy xx
