Feeling Lonely? How to Connect
In our fast-paced world, modern dating seems to involve endless swiping, matching and messaging.
Look, I won't lie, I love a quick and naughty rendezvous as much as the next girl.
Rushed hookups can scratch the itch, but there's something to be said about taking the time to create true intimacy and connection.
And, let's be honest, connecting deeply doesn't happen in hour-long bookings.
Truly connecting – feeling, sharing, trusting, exploring – takes time.
Often, in our busy world, we feel like we don't have time. Trust me, I get it. Your attention is pulled in so many directions, and you have seemingly endless commitments – phone calls, notifications, emails, meetings... It doesn't seem to ever stop. You're with people all day, yet you are left feeling disconnected, alone, and yearning for something more…
After all, you are all human, and humans are wired to crave intimacy and connection with others. And when you are craving a more profound connection, you might find that meeting for a short hour doesn't truly fulfil your desires. You're looking for something more.
In my experience, longer dates allow us unrushed time and space to build authentic intimacy that does more than simply satisfy physical desires. I adore enjoying a glass of wine or a relaxing shower together and taking the time to get to know one another and learn what really makes you tick. To me, connecting on an emotional level is just as important as physical attraction.
Without the concern of the clock, we can truly relax, unwind, indulge in one another and fulfil our most carnal desires. And, of course, there's always plenty of time for tantalising pillow talk and comforting embraces.
I find that taking time to connect in an unrushed manner means that a sense of ease builds between us. We can relax and be our true selves. And there is something profoundly fulfilling about having a special space to escape, be yourself and connect deeply.
If you're looking for something more…
It's time to satisfy your hunger…
Take a long 'lunch'.
Go on; you deserve it.
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