Confessions of a bossy bee: What I'm really looking for in the perfect session!
1. First impressions don't go unnoticed. If you put a little thought into your first greeting, and introduce yourself, that's usually a great start. I like to get a feel of who it is I'm talking to.
2. Hot tip, if I may? I really appreciate a little forwardness also - a "tell me about your services," is a bit of a bore. Tell me if you're shy, tell me if you're experienced - tell me if you're not sure exactly what - but you think you might like or enjoy something along the lines of..."a, b or c." The less you hold back in our initial communications, the more you can be certain I'll have an understanding of how it is to accomodate you. If you know exactly what you want, spell it out, set the scene - come out with it!
3. Pre-bookings - the chemistry, the tension, the build up, the excitement - it all begins prior. If you have an experience to share, like a spa day, breakfast in bed, or a midnight rendez-vous somewhere charming, why not consider extending the invitation and having it be something we both look forward to?
4. It doesn't have to be snazzy or upmarket. The bare basics - mutual courtesy and a little enthusiasm, while remembering to let go is all a part of the process. Let's have fun ;)
