escort diary® of Mona Mour: FAQ: More than a massage?
It's not really a massage I offer, it is an Erotic Enchantment.
I want to cultivate the erotic as a flow state, as something that brings us back to ourselves,
that invokes our will to live,
that reminds us the preciousness of our sensate body.
It takes a while to enter the wonderland, to get hypnotised by it, to linger there, together, giggly and free.
So, I always recommend you come and trust the first time to be "just a massage" because it is not..
Our bodies are mostly in leash, controlled by the rational brain, the clock, the money, most of the time: sit, sleep, roll over.
It is in the world of desires that the body gets to speak.
I want.... sure, but what is the FEELING you want to feel?
Desire itself is delicious. Connection, intimacy, peace, harmony, love, lust, aliveness, joy.... varying degrees of intensity, of surrender, of yearning.
I love to be there with you, it is one of the feelings most precious to me, this connected, no-mind state of listening to the bodies' language.
I love to conduct the electricity across our bodies... I love to guide you deeper into the hypnotic pleasure - in that sense I am a cat playing with her prey.
But as a great pleasure top, my reward is that innocent surrender in your eyes, that reaching out to open more desire and finally giving into the body's impulse to just dance with the ripples of orgasm like it is the entire purpose of life.
I consider touch itself the drug.
When was the last time someone ran their warm, soft hands across your whole body, awakening it...?
I notice some struggle to feel. I notice others only chase a familiar dopamine pathway to wanting - more, more, more... the visual and the goal is more important than enjoying the moment - ARRIVING to the connection.
When you arrive into the dance between our bodies - take pause and feel....
I want your cells to come alive - the skin, the electricity in the nervous system, the sweet relieve of muscles held, the weight of our bones and the fluidity of all the water...our inner ocean, upwelling in each breath.
New hormones and chemistry start to appear in the scene: oxytocin, the love hormone, is the holy grail of the erotic state - for men, it increases post-orgasm, so don't rush to get off and get out!!
Feel.
Feel the endorphins like you've run a marathon,
feel the sweetness of serotonin, natures own happiness, the strongest painkiller, the nectar of giddiness.
Let us cultivate these throughout our time together.
I want our first time to focus on YOU drinking the full cup.
Yes, absolutely, pleasure is best shared - why shouldn't I let you bring me to those gates of surrender with you?
Because I feel the split focus is a high art. I want to make us better lovers, ultimately, so it matters that you get to receive, listen, feel how good touch can be.
And I want you to then return that gift from a place of devotion to the erotic herself. I want to make sure your cup is full, that your batteries are charged, that you are, in fact alive with me, inhabiting your body.
That it is NOT a mechanical act.
A fantasy come true? Sure, but instead of watching it like a movie of your life... I just want to make sure you feel it, move it, smell and taste it.
I used to cultivate the erotic in groups, with clothes on, blindfolded, for hours at a time..
It was the most magical space.
And the closest thing to an orgy, where everyone was already in..
So, for me, foreplay is the best part - prolong it, surf the waves of desire, surrender and be fulfilled.
Some of my favourite clients GET IT - it's a form of meditation, it is a form of forgetting about everything else and coming home to the body, it is a cultivation of what we came here to be alive for...
Slowing down and making the exploration longer really does help.
Sometimes too much excitement (dopamine) gets in the way of us being present and it is better to just orgasm first and THEN you can access more of yourself... build up into a longer wave, a tsunami of bliss..
Yes, men are multiorgasmic too, yes you can prolong your orgasm from a few second sneeze to minutes of gasping ripples (requires some involvement of the prostate ).
It is a practice - becoming a great lover is a journey.
I've been obsessed with body language, dance, touch, our erotic interface for 15 years now - I love being in the erotic flow state, with you.
The only thing that breaks it is the mind interfering with pressure, performance, directing the movie instead of, for once, just witnessing the body, the primal enjoyment of our biology take precedence.
So, I don't like to promise things that would break the magic. I want to cultivate this erotic state together and feel your capacity to meet me there.
And then we can go deeper, together.
