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Spending time with Tom is something I genuinely treasure. It feels so easy, relaxed, and completely natural—like everything just flows without effort. You know how they say you have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince? That really rings true. I’ve had some wonderful experiences with others, but they’ve all felt quite different. Dating a few people has helped me realise how important it is to have something to compare to—because what might seem great on its own doesn’t always measure up when placed beside something truly special.
What stands out about Tom is that he’s unapologetically himself. There’s no pretense or polished façade—just him, as he really is. That kind of honesty is rare and refreshing. When we’re together, I feel completely at ease. I can be silly, light-hearted, or totally myself, and never feel judged. He joins right in, with his own playful banter. Of course, he teases me back—cheeky as ever! Honestly, with Tom, I never get away with anything—and I love that but don’t tell him. lol
There’s also something comforting about the way he takes the lead sometimes, whether it’s insisting on driving or instinctively picking the perfect dish for me. It’s in those little moments that I feel truly cared for—safe, protected, and able to switch off from the noise of the world. And after our time together, that sense of calm and happiness stays with me for days.
What stands out about Tom is that he’s unapologetically himself. There’s no pretense or polished façade—just him, as he really is. That kind of honesty is rare and refreshing. When we’re together, I feel completely at ease. I can be silly, light-hearted, or totally myself, and never feel judged. He joins right in, with his own playful banter. Of course, he teases me back—cheeky as ever! Honestly, with Tom, I never get away with anything—and I love that but don’t tell him. lol
There’s also something comforting about the way he takes the lead sometimes, whether it’s insisting on driving or instinctively picking the perfect dish for me. It’s in those little moments that I feel truly cared for—safe, protected, and able to switch off from the noise of the world. And after our time together, that sense of calm and happiness stays with me for days.