I have joked to many men about how the first sexual interaction is similar to the first crèpe you make: meant to me imperfect, never the right texture, and slightly funny to look at.
The image that movies, novels, porn and almost every input of media has thrown in our faces for eons has always b...
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What they tell me afterward - thank you for the loving testimonies.
In the years I have been independent, men have told me I made them forget they were nervous.
That we both lost track of time so completely they thought the clock was broken.
That they came to Sydney for five days on business and changed their entire schedule to see me twice.
One man told me th...
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Is intimacy sex and is sex intimacy?
I think most people confuse sex and intimacy because it's easier than admitting they're terrified of one of them.
Sex is simple. Not easy, especially not in the context of booking a sexworker: there are logistics, bodies, awkward moments, nervousness... It remains simple and has a structure: a be...
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