Kitty Du Jour 0

There is more to Dominance than purely theatrics, latex and pain. I am interested in what happens when you sacrifice something willingly.

Your composure.
Your autonomy.
Your dignity, perhaps.

Since 2013 I have been studying the strange and beautiful ways that people engage with surrender and vulnerability. I am endlessly curious about the mechanics of desire, power, ritual. My Dominance is hungry and intuitive; sometimes exacting, sometimes playful, sometimes almost unbearably tender. I would much rather discover the thing that makes you unravel and become putty in my hands, than simply put on a performance of someone else's idea of what a Dominant woman should be.

There is room in My studio for protocol and absurdity, reverence and laughter, servitude and very undignified predicaments. I can be warm without being weak, cruel without being careless, demanding without ever losing sight of the person in front of Me.

I want to know what frightens you a little. What you have imagined but never said aloud. What part of yourself you have been waiting for someone perceptive enough to notice.

What are you willing to sacrifice?

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Sessions

My sessions are built around you.

With your initial inquiry I begin to build a picture, and there are certain things that are helpful to know rather than working from a laundry list of activities. What experience you have (it’s okay if this is zero!), what you enjoy, what you don't enjoy. How you want to feel. From there, we will build something together, whether that be over an hour or a decade. You don’t need to have all of the answers straight away, curiosity is enough.

I am an attentive Dominant. I watch, I listen, I notice your breath and every involuntary twitch. I like discovering where your edges are and deciding, with care and consideration, what we might do with them. There is often laughter and joy in my sessions, and there may also be silence, anticipation, vulnerability, embarrassment, reverence and the innate calm that comes from letting go.

My personal interests vary wildly, and I am highly experienced in a lot of areas. Some of my favourites include:

Impact play (light to extreme), bondage (rope, leather and chain), predicament bondage, CBT, sissification, humiliation/degradation, medical play, needle play, decorative cutting, chastity, religious play, total power exchange, pegging, fisting, pet play, golden showers, long term submissive training, domestic servitude, foot fetish, leather fetish, breath play and more.

Things I DON'T do: Roman/brown showers, hot branding, blackmail fetish, CNC (unless heavily negotiated), race play.

Things I am currently learning and will be offering soon: Rope suspension, needle bondage, saline infusions.


I try to accommodate item and outfit requests however this is not always possible. I prefer to session in what I am comfortable in, or nothing at all.