There’s a lot of artistic creativity involved in having an outstanding threesome.

A threesome – otherwise known as a ménage a trois, if we’re feeling sophisticated – is any encounter that involves three people of any gender. Often, it’s a guy and two ladies (what we call an ‘MFF’ threesome.) Sometimes it’s a lady with two guys (this is an ‘MMF threesome.) But outside of these standard models, threesomes can involve any gender and any combination of straight, bisexual or gay participants.

As an independent escort, much of my work consists of seeing guy/girl couples or bringing a female friend along on a date with a gentleman client. It’s always a unique experience, no matter how many times I do it; threesomes are one of my favourite past-times.

So, what’s so special about a threesome?

Personally, I love the experience of having two people find me sexy. It’s lovely having two people pay me compliments at once – indulgent and ego-boosting. I always leave a doubles booking feeling great about myself.

Some guys (and girls) enjoy the challenge of trying to please two other partners at once. I know this can be a huge ego boost, especially for guys – and it’s no small feat, having the concentration to keep track of all those arms, legs and lips! Doing a threesome safely takes some special safer sex skills, and anyone who masters that can call themselves a sexpert. And the feeling of accomplishment that comes from making two women orgasm is something you’ll never forget.

But the biggest reason I enjoy threesomes is the opportunity for creativity. Regular two-person sex can often become formulaic. Were so used to doing things the same old way, that it’s easy to slip into bad habits and stop concentrating on what’s going on. But during a threesome, everything feels new. The challenge of connecting with two people at once (and working out what everyone wants) means that no two encounters are the same. When we’re all alone in a hotel room, what we get up to is entirely up to us. 

Often, it’s not just about having conventional sex. I sometimes find myself in the middle of a huge cuddle sandwich or lavishing a hot massage on a blindfolded client. No matter how sexy the action gets, there’s always the chance that one of us will get up and refill the champagne. Having an extra pair of hands is useful in all sorts of ways!

This is why threesomes are so magnificent; because we can’t follow the standard method, we’re encouraged to be creative. That results in all sorts of unexpected moments. I fondly remember the lovely Alice Grey and I bursting into song right in the middle of sex, because something fun had come on the radio. And when I played the blindfold game with the delicious Charlotte Wolf recently, we discovered things about each other that we could never have known just by talking over a coffee…somethings just need to be experienced.

I tell all my clients, friends, and lovers, that they should try a threesome at least once in their lives. It can be intense, terrifying, exhilarating. But most of all, it’s a rare opportunity to experience how creative good sex really is.