One thing that not many of you may know: my first ever escort booking was with a couple.

I met them completely by chance. I was working in a parlour in Melbourne’s north – one that I still have very fond memories of! On this particular summer night, a guy and girl in their thirties came looking for someone to visit them at their hotel the following evening.

I have always loved playing with women but unfortunately such clients are fairly rare. The lady in question was wonderful - she looked like a 50s pin-up girl, with brains to match her beauty. Her husband was just as nice: witty and quietly spoken. Within minutes of chatting I felt like I had known them for years. I went to visit them the next evening. I t was my first experience of how valuable sex work can be – and how much I had to offer. Altogether it was a great introduction to escorting!

Having a threesome can be really fun. It’s a different dynamic to a twosome – much more playful and collaborative. When there are three people present, it’s impossible to follow the patterns of behaviour that I rely on when interacting with a sexual partner. I feel freer to try new things and do things in different ways.

Over the past few years I’ve had the opportunity to spend time with many couples. For some it has been their first time; I have been able to guide them past their fear and anxiety into a really positive experience. More experienced couples are great too, though! Being given a glimpse into someone else’s loving relationship - and being invited to visit, if only for a short time – is an incredible privilege. It’s a joy that I will never tire of.

If you’re thinking of giving your partner the gift of threesome love this Christmas, here are a couple of pieces of advice. Firstly, if you are a heterosexual couple, let the lady organise your appointment. I much prefer being contacted by her first, although I will also insist upon speaking with both of you before we meet to ensure you’re both comfortable with the idea.

Secondly: put aside any ideas you have picked up from porn or Hollywood films about what a threesome should look like. Every play session is as different as the people who participate. It might end up being like a hot porn scene, or we might end up talking and laughing together for hours while trading sexual favours. Be honest about what you want or don’t want, but keep an open mind.

Are you interested in finding out more? I’m offering a $100 discount off my normal couples’ rate in December and January. Contact me and mention this blog post to receive your discount!