You might think threesomes are something that only happen in porn or in the movies, but more and more folks these days are experimenting with the ménage-a-trois. How can we get a threesome happening? And how do we make sure it goes well? I recently invited escort Alice Grey into my bedroom for an honest chat about having the perfect threesome encounter.Here’s how it went: We sat down, switched on...
For about eight months now, I’ve worked as an escort client coach.What’s an escort client coach, you may ask? Good question. Basically, it’s someone (me) who chats with people who see sex workers, helping them to get started or to working on their specific problems. There’s a lot of variety – sometimes I’m advising clients on how to book an escort for the first time. Sometimes I’m chatting with a...
When it comes to sex, we often just hope for the best; but it's not the best way.One of my favourite sayings about escort bookings is, 'it takes two to tango.' Although it's your professional's job to work out what you need and make sure you have a good time, we can only do so much. Your experience is going to be vastly improved if you meet us halfway. And since you're investing a lot of time and...
Recently, I received a message that made me feel sad.I encourage my followers to send me their questions about escorts. The questions are submitted on my website via an anonymous form - I never know the name of the sender, not their location. Over the past few months I've written answers on every conceivable escort topic, from 'How much should I tip?' to 'Should I lose my virginity with a sex work...
This is a blog about gift-giving. I've been gifted many items over the course of my career, ranging from traditional to unconventional. I've given gifts too ... wine, chocolates, birthday cards. I even bought someone a donut once at Short Stop (just to be clear, that's not the way it normally goes, guys!)But there’s often a lot of confusion about what the rules are, and some of my clients admit to...
I’ll always remember my first ‘little black dress’.It's a rite of passage - the first purchase one makes as a female-presenting sex worker. Perhaps it's not always black... depending on the worker, it could be a red dress, a sparkly sequinned affair, or a smart business frock. But we all have a story about our first escorting outfit.When I started working as an escort, I didn't have much cash to h...
There’s a lot of artistic creativity involved in having an outstanding threesome.A threesome – otherwise known as a ménage a trois, if we’re feeling sophisticated – is any encounter that involves three people of any gender. Often, it’s a guy and two ladies (what we call an ‘MFF’ threesome.) Sometimes it’s a lady with two guys (this is an ‘MMF threesome.) But outside of these standard models, three...
When was the last time you went for a long drive?I don’t mean a commute to work, or a quick trip to the shops to buy more milk. I mean, when was the last time you took a drive somewhere just to enjoy the journey? For me, it was a holiday I took to New Zealand in 2015. Driving around the South Island, the country roads were flanked on one side by beautiful green hills, and on the other by the sea....
Escorts and clients: sometimes we have more in common than we think.Last week I spoke with one of my coaching clients - a lovely gent in search of the right escort. "How do I know if my escort really likes me?" he said. "How can I tell if they're going to treat me fairly and be a good long-term investment?"And just the next day, I chatted with an escort friend at my local cafe. The questions were...
What's the difference between a new escort client, and an experienced player?Clients come in all shapes and sizes. They are young, old, or middle-aged. They are married, single, or just experimenting. They are professionally successful, or work minimum wage. They may be well-dressed, or just look like the next average person. They are be socially confident, nervous, or anywhere in-between.You can'...
