Why I am rarely available for last minute bookings.
I work 80 hour weeks and I work 7 days a week.
I have a full time job within my private life.
I run a website design business.
And i'm a sex worker.
I wish I had the opportunity to drop everything and be at your beck and call every minute of every day but in the real world, that is a luxury you are not entitled too.
My days are spent surviving off very little sleep.
A typical day for me involves waking to the first of 3 alarms set at 5:45am before rising to my final alarm at 6:15am. If I am working a store open I quickly jump in the shower to be ready to leave by 6:40am for a 7am start. My working day is spent running around to complete all active tasks required of me, I finish at 4pm and am back home by 4:30pm to begin responding to emails, working on current website projects, website updates, business plans, advertising and business financials. These evenings usually also involve an outcall ranging between 1 hour - 5 hours in length that I work around active computer tasks. This is my life 3 days a week.
If I am working a closing shift, I shower and make a coffee to begin a morning on the computer before leaving at 12:30pm for an evening shift at my full time job. When working a closing shift I am home by 9:30pm to continue on my active computer tasks as listed for an opening shift before crashing in bed around 2-3 am in the morning. These days I barely have a chance to breathe so I am not available for bookings with sex work, this is my life 2 days a week.
The remaining 2 days of my week are spent at a parlour conducting legal incalls, and working on behalf of them. In between bookings and intro's I am working on websites, responding to emails & updating my advertising. My parlour days finish at 8pm and from there I usually head to a private outcall before heading home to continue on my website coding until 2-3am.
The dedication I have to this life is to achieve my goals.
I am currently saving for skin removal surgery after having lost 50+kg since November to create a shapely body I can then build into the person I am destined to be.
I am saving to buy a house within the next 2 years, I still am $40,000 off my goal.
I am also working to survive the upkeep required within the sex work industry, on average the upkeep alone each year is anywhere between $20,000-35,000.
I don't have the luxury or the time to afford cancellations, which is why I require a pre deposit to secure my time.
My busy schedule also does not allow last minute bookings unless I have a cancellation. I need to work them in to my schedule or it throws me completely out of schedule.
I ask that a template is followed when contacting me, this isn't to be difficult, nor make things harder for you.
This is to help me prioritize and provide you with the quickest possible response, to ensure a pre booking with me is completed smoothly and easily and that the time we spend together will be a mutually beneficial experience for both myself and for you.
So let's work together to create a beautiful experience,