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My twitter followers decided they want to read about sexy stuff. What gets me aroused? What turns me on?

It’s actually a much more complicated subject, harder to write about than I imagined!
I’ve been thinking about this for a few days now, and not getting any closer to figuring out one thing that gets me hot. It seems to be something different with each person.
Its not black and white. No specific rules, and it changes based on the person and the day. The day of the month too… But that’s for another writing.

I’ll give it a try… But remember my coffee machine broke and I’m writing it without my daily cup of coffee!

What is arousal anyway? What defines it? The easy, but I think a very wrong outlook on it, is an erect penis on a guy and a wet pussy on a girl.

However sometimes the body can be aroused on it’s own, while the mind is far far away. Making it a physical exercise only. Sometimes the mind can be all in it, but the body is having a break. Obviously it’s best when it’s shared by both.

In general, I find a mental connection first then the physical contact to be a lot more arousing, than saying hello to a stranger I know nothing about and jumping in to bed. Hence why dinner / lunch dates and of course overnights work best.

On a purely mental level I absolutely love turning people on. When they are aroused by me, give me compliments, and even more so when they can’t think straight and their hands, and the whole body is shaking from excitement, that turns me on!

I like to be allowed to tease and explore their body first. In some cases, when the partner is very fun to play with, (read: reacts in a positive way, in a significant positive way, not just lying there like a log), I can get crazy aroused, dripping wet, just from that, without being touched myself at all.

Unfortunately many people are very fixated on achieving the goal of the play time, what they see as having an erection and the end result - cum. For some reason many see their worth in either their size, or how long they last. I much prefer to enjoy the journey. Something as elemental as enjoying each other’s company, doing Tantric breathing together, massages, cuddles, sensory play, kissing, pleasuring each other in more intense ways, sharing the physical joys, so many things can happen without the need for the guy to be at attention. When it’s not the major star of the show, and is allowed to happen naturally, Im sure both parties can enjoy it more.

I’ll blame it all on the upbringing, being told those areas are nasty / dirty / naughty or just unspoken of, is giving them some power and shame, not a good combination. If you treat the whole body equally, as a temple, search for pleasure in all parts of it, a lot can be discovered, learned and enjoyed!

Having sex, being intimate, kissing, feeling needed, are the basic human rights, and it does prolong life and increases the quality. Even looking at breasts makes guys healthier. Many studies have been done on the topic. And with a good reason there is the saying of ‘after sex glow’. Sex increases immunity, slows down the ageing process, study showed people who have sex very regularly look 10 -13 years younger!

So there, there is nothing bad in sex, as long as it’s done safely, respectfully and with full consent. And I’d add with a partner that’s suitable to your style of sex.

Back to me…

I like to be kissed till I melt. But not many are very good kissers… Sorry guys! But trying to be honest here. The balance between passion and gentleness is very important with kissing. Fish kisses are just as annoying as having bruised lips for days after. Mouth hygiene and smell are the most important factors. Being aware, conscious of what you are doing, matching the pace, using the tongue when appropriate, without making me feel like I’m being licked by a dog, or getting dry boring kisses. It’s amazing when two people are in sync, kissing is like dancing.

I like to be petted, but again some people are better at doing that than others. One person got me aroused just by petting my face! I felt like purring. Hehe.

Important hint -
Listen to my cues, and watch what’s working and what’s making me uncomfortable.

I like changing things up, as I do get bored quickly. Hence I don’t have one routine with everyone.

It sometimes is difficult for me with guys who can last ages and go on and on and on and on with penetrative sex, once I had a number of O’s, it does get monotonous and boring. Position changes and activity changes helps.

My whole body is sensitive, I enjoy when people explore the less typical erogenous zones first, for a long while before touching the “expected hot spots”.

I like to have my arse played with, in a teasing way it can get me crazy aroused.

Using different toys is adding a vibrational level of ecstasy, I totally love them and most guys enjoy watching me using them. Whether they choose to participate as well or just watch the show.

I like being held and dotted on. I like standing up sex positions, being held by the strong guy.
I like to start with me riding on top, both ways. However I get most of my satisfaction in a spooning position. OK, so basically I just like sex. All except doggy. Doggy I feel it to be boring, humiliating, and physically nothing pleasurable in it. I know this is just my opinion as the whole world seems to be fixated on it for some reason.

Being whispered sexy stuff in to my ear can be very arousing, and in general communication is important, even thou I am intuitive, some people are very closed in and hard to read, and I’d hate spending hours doing the not-quite-the-right thing, when I might as well be doing something to please more!

It’s great entertaining people who enjoy exploring, happy to learn how to please, and yet happy to lie back and just enjoy too.

I play with emotions, use elements of Tantra, a bit of kinky stuff, to the level that my play partner is comfortable with. I don’t enjoy pain, not giving not receiving it. If I’m getting uncomfortable or sore, I loose all arousal pretty quickly. Hence why I’m being so careful with screening people I see, and some say they have to jump thru hoops to come play with me. It’s my body and I have to make sure you will respect it. I want this job to stay pleasurable, exciting, and satisfying.

This must be the messiest writing peace yet. I have a lot more to say, but will leave it, and all other sex tips for the intimate times for just the two of us…

If this sounds like the type of play you will be in to, let’s give it a go and see how we fit together :-)
Although if you made it reading all the way down to here, we will get along really well anyway. Heh.

Always and forever, your Maze xx

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