escort diary® of Luana Sweet

Why safe sexual practice is important and why the risks of natural oral is under-rated?

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I had a very "normal" life before this industry with a very little knowledge about STDs.
I had long-term relationships and very little knowledge about these diseases. I believe that education from age 15 should teach students about the risks of unprotected sex.
My knowledge about unprotected sex was: "use condoms for sex otherwise you can get AIDS". That was my knowledge.
I successfully picked a psychopath to marry with - what are the odds? 4% of the population belong to this category.
I spent 2 years of my life hiding and running away from this nutbag who finally got arrested for trying to kill me during those 2 years. That's when he got diagnosed as a psychopath (a person with absolutely no emotions including remorse).
So, the question was there: what to do after wasting several years with such a person?
I am from Eastern Europe and I did not feel Europe safe because of him (somehow I was always found) so I decided to change my look, change my name and come to the furthest place possible: Australia.
As I was absolutely not interested in another relationship but loved sex, I decided to work as an escort in Sydney. As I was also starting with a debt (fantastic divorce from someone who spends all our money. In my country you divide the debt into half as well. Sweet, right? ) but wanted to rebuild my life, this job was a very great opportunity to work and study at the same time. I managed to earn a Bachelor degree and doing my Masters now.
When I started this job, I had absolutely no idea what to do. There is a great organisation for working girls, where they teach you all the regulations and have workshops and give you books to learn from. This is where I realised how little I knew about the risks of unprotected sex.

Probably the biggest shock was to learn that it is not only the penetration that spreads a lot more type of diseases that I have ever known about but also unprotected oral or just letting the guy touch me with his hand after he was touching himself spread diseases. Sharing sex-toys was an obvious risk but rubbing your genital area to guys' area was something out of my knowledge. So, the knowledge gained here really opened up my eyes including how bacteria stays in the throat and spreads with oral, which is the highest risk as people do not take it seriously.
As an "awakened" person, I also learned that around 25% of people in Australia carry sexual disease which is very scary. Although the disease is usually "only" chlamydia or gonorrhea (both of them can be treated easily with antibiotics), I realised my duty of care as a professional person who has to protect her clients from any STD.
In the past few years we also have a new type of gonorrhea that is a superbug: resistant to every type of medication.
I have an average 10-20 people each day asking me for natural oral and even though I clearly explain why I do not do it,k they do not seem to care about their own health.
I get my health check ups every 3 months and I am very careful to keep all my results negative.
I found it very disappointing how stupid lots of guys are by not giving a f**ck about these risks and try to push girls to become ill and spread diseases. I cannot understand this stupidity, to be honest. They call you names when you say "no" for natural services which are illegal anyway.
I wish people were more educated and actually cared more about their own and other people's health.

Guys think that without a condom sex is a lot better. Yes, it does feel better but it is also risky. Does it worth to get something? Most diseases do not even have any symptoms. Then you want to get into a relationship (or you are in one already) and usually, these diseases that go unnoticed for you show up very soon in the female's body in the form of vaginal infections (especially in the ovary). Do you think that girl will want to see you ever again? Do you think she will tell everyone she knows and YOU know that you infected her with a sexual disease? You can bet.

So, does unprotected sex worth it? With your girlfriend who you know, yes. With a casual hook-up absolutely not.
Short term pleasure can come with a very high price and these things in our minds always only happen "with others" until it happens to us and ruins everything in a blink of an eye.
It can happen after the very first time we do not pay attention and with some lucky people, it will never happen.
I do not believe in luck. I believe in 1 rule:
"If you do not want to get burnt do not play with fire."


I am happy to see those lovely guys who are like-minded.
I place your safety and privacy as my no1 priority.
I use the thinnest condoms that claim to feel "natural" by the best brands. I also use creams that have natural enhancers to increase your pleasure even while using a condom.
Smart sex is my type of sex.
Which one is yours?

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