escort diary of Lily Eros

My Sessions Aren't Just About Sex

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Yes, I use sex to pique interest in my sessions. I talk about enhancing your orgasm and lasting longer etc etc etc, sex sells after all, but that’s not the core of what my sessions are.

We are sexual beings and our sexuality is integral to who we are. It is such an intimate part of ourselves that it is weaved through our whole psyche. It effects us in everything we do whether we know it or not, or even whether the thing we are doing is ‘sexual’ or not.

If you feel empowered and free in your sexuality, you feel that way in your life. If you feel restricted in your sexual expression, it restricts you in life.

When we step into our sexual power, the effects ripple out into our whole lives!

When I started taking the layers of societies conditioning around shame and sex and what it ‘should’ be or what I ‘should’ feel and all that bullshit away.
FUCK.
It was like I seriously unlevelled my life.
My self confidence and self respect sky rocketed. I really believed in myself and my inherent value as a person wasn’t based on anything external anymore.
My creativity exploded - effecting my work and my personal life.
My relationships became more satisfying and nourishing.
I started embracing my imperfections.
My overall energy increased.
My experience of orgasm expanded to include things I didn’t even know where possible.
These are just a few of the things I've noticed in myself, not mentioning what I've seen transform in others.

All this isn’t to say that I’m perfect, that I’m some sexual guru or sexpert - I’m not.
I’m a human being with flaws like everyone else (and that’s beautiful!)
Unravelling beliefs that don’t serve me and uncovering what’s authentic for me is a continual journey and exploration. It will be lifelong. Sometimes it’s dark and sometimes it’s light. Sometimes I’m alone and sometimes surrounded by people.

What has helped me so much in uncovering my authentic sexual expression has been having people who have been there guide me, some professional and some personal. (I’ll write some more about these experiences in later posts).

In my sessions it is important that we are both authentic, meaning we are ourselves. I’m not going to come in and give you some porn performance, I’m not going to perform at all - I’m going to be REAL with you (ironically I often get told often that this is even sexier than porn.) It’s important to me for us to have an authentic connection, this makes our experience together more intimate and usually means my client will get more out of it. So at the beginning of our session we will take the time to connect - I have a few different practices and will pick one depending on the clients needs.

These sessions are about self discovery and helping my clients (and at the same time myself) explore more of who they are. I use eroticism because, well it’s FUN, but also because it’s powerful. Connecting with your authentic sexual expression and desire gives you so much more to play with in your life, and not just sexually.

So if you want a woman to just come over and jerk you off, and pretend she’s into it, I’m not the person for you. If you want to explore your sexuality and how powerful it can be, get in touch and lets talk.

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