escort diary® of Honey Adams

When did sex become a service list?

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When did sex become a service list?

I would love to know why is important for you to know this? What need does it fill for you? That you will get your “moneys worth” if said escort ticks your boxes? Or maybe you feel you can’t commit if she doesn’t offer the exact “service” your after? Or perhaps you want her to act a certain way in her persona? you want her being a wild PSE or gentle GFE?

Would you be open to going with the flow? maybe you don’t even know what you actually “need”…. YET ? ;) It may knock your socks off.


These were some questions that have been coming up for me lately.
Yes, it’s true, I used to offer a very extensive “service list” with all the bells and whistles, heck- i think i used to actually title it- “Xmas day with all the trimmings”- haha

The questions I had to ask myself…
When did i detach from my body and be able to blurt out a checklist on command for a price?
HOW the hell can I tell a complete stranger what ill do with them in the bedroom BEFORE I HAVE MET THEM or FELT THEIR ENERGY?!

Woah, it was so confronting to even acknowledge this thought, as i had become auto pilot to these inquiries i used to just roll off the service list and proceed with the booking process having no clue if i actually wanted to offer these things or not.

Sex work, has been one of the most profound jobs i have ever had in my life, its taken me on a journey of deep healing and self discovery, but also uncomfortable and painful realisations. I truly believe i was destined to be a Escort, I knew it would hold the greatest gifts for my own evolution.

It launched me high into the sky and I developed an amazing brand for which i am incredibly grateful to have achieved, but when i “reached” that milestone of success there was great emptiness, a longing for MORE.
Don’t get me wrong here, I LOOOOOOOOOVE SEX. I bloody love it! I have an incredibly powerful sexual energy, and knew that it wasn’t being channelled the way i wanted, it had become a superficial satisfaction and not heartfelt and ORGASMIC. Yes, i had lots of orgasms, but superficial and not fully embodied. It was time to listen- I wanted;

DEEPER connection
MORE transparency/honesty
MORE allowing of myself to show up in complete and total presence and respect to my body and my own needs, and by doing this allowing my lovers to do the exact same- I didn’t realise how powerful this would be until i witnessed lovers having some very special (and sexy) breakthroughs of their own.

I found that by being really authentic in myself and fully embodying my devine feminine energy and receiving my lovers just how they showed up (rather than controlling the setting with a service list) and us both mutually listening to each others desires in the moment BLEW things up!!!!!!!!!
Being totally present and not needing to “be” or “do” a certain way.
New heights of fucking PLEASURE were felt for both of us, and honestly, it has brought a whole new level of connection in my relationship firstly with myself and secondly with my lovers. I couldn’t be happier.

Rather than stating a list, I now state my boundaries. These may change over time, and they also are variable. and this is totally ok.

So there you have it!

And to end, with a beautiful quote in closure…

“When we Define ourselves, we Confine ourselves”

Cant wait to meet all the parts of you :)

Love Honey xoxox

** Obviously safe sex will always come first and foremost

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