escort diary of Helena Rain

The advantages to hiring a genuinely kinky escort

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Kink has been a part of me before I even knew what kink was. I ached for it, thought about it, breathed it. About three or four years ago I moved to Melbourne and dove headfirst into the scene there. I thrived on the BDSM scene, and ended up working for a few of the clubs down there. Since relocating back to Brisbane last June I've still kept up frequent attendance. In the last few years my attendance at kink events has ranged from one to eight events a month! That's a lot of kink, and that's just the public scene!

I've always had deep, dark desires that I kept close to me. I wanted them fulfilled, but I found out quickly that just because someone is willing to indulge your fantasy doesn't mean that they're genuinely into it. And somehow, it ends up kind of sucking. I mean, it's good, sure, but... it's not amazing. It feels like you've had a coffee with skim milk, or fat-free yoghurt. Pizza without cheese (is that even a thing? I really hope that's not a thing...). It'll do, but it's not quite the same.

Over time I found people that were genuinely into the things I was and... wow. It made *such* a difference. Suddenly, living out these desires weren't half-assed. They were full, and rich, and overwhelming, and absolutely perfect. Even when they weren't perfect they were still fulfilling, and always a little life-changing.

And the funny thing is... once I let these fantasies be indulged in... allowed myself to become truly fulfilled... they no longer controlled me. Previously, I had let my desire control me. It stopped me concentrating at work, and lead to poor decision making in an attempt to get what I wanted or needed. However, once I was able to fulfil those desires fully.... it stopped. I was able to think about things other than my lust and desire. And sure, after some time, those feelings came back... but it was much easier to deal with because I knew I just needed those things fulfilled again and I'd be on my merry way. Life was suddenly in my control again.

I think it's the same with hiring an escort willing to let you live out your fantasies... and finding an escort who is genuinely kinky and truly wants to experience these things with you. When an escort is truly into your kink, the experience can be more genuine. More fulfilling. They *get* it, and they get you.

Of course, it's not always easy to be a member of the "scene" as it were. Perhaps you have a high profile job. A family, or partner unhappy to partake in these things. Perhaps the kink scene is something that makes you uncomfortable. Perhaps you prefer to keep your kink private. Or maybe you're just really, really busy. There are a hundred reasons why attending events frequently is off the cards for you. And even if you can make it out to the scene... it's not a matter of showing up, finding a pretty girl, and having your fun. It takes a lot of time, and effort, and negotiation!

But that's why an escort can help. And a genuinely kinky escort can be a godsend. It's hard to learn a lot of the stuff in BDSM! It can be really intimidating as well. Things that look easy are much harder than you think, and things that look scary are often far easier. But almost all of it requires some knowledge and understanding of various things. A genuinely kinky escort can help make you feel comfortable with your kinks, discuss your wants and needs, your limits. They can allow you to explore your fantasy in a genuine, but safe setting.

A good, and truly kinky escort, will be able to show you the ropes, as it were, and engage you safely but in a fun manner. They'll help you feel comfortable, whether you're completely new and just curious, or deeply experienced and just need your fix. They'll give you the space to be truly you, without judgement.

To summarise, the advantages to hiring a genuinely kinky escort are:
- fulfilling your fantasy is a lot more fun when the other person is truly into your kink, and not just indulging you;
- finding someone to engage you in those kinks can be difficult, particularly if you have barriers such as a high profile job, a family, or lack time;
- having someone who knows what they're doing and being able to soothe your nerves.

A good escort will be able to take you on the journey with her. Your deepest, darkest desires can be fulfilled. You just have to know where to look.

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