get to know me a little better :)
Q. Can you tell us how you became an escort, and what your family thinks — or knows — about your occupation?
A. I mentioned how i became an escort in my last diary entry as for what my parents know about my job; My mother, father and siblings know that I am an escort. They know I am extremely safe and am very picky when it comes to who I will see. They both understand that this is what I have chosen to do whilst I am studying and they don't have anything against it.
Q. Do you have any moral problem with what you do?
A. Not at all, even before I became an escort I had nothing against them. I grew up in a household were sex wasn't a bad thing and as long as I am safe that Is all that matters. Although I do worry about the consequences from having this job later in my life after university.
Q. What kind of clients do you have?
A. My clients are generally white, married, and professional males, between forty and fifty years old, with incomes over $AUD100,000 a year. They tend to be doctors, lawyers, and businessmen looking to get away for a few hours in the middle of the day.
Q. How many of your clients are married men?
A. Almost all of my clients are married. I would say easily over 90%. I’m not trying to justify this business, but these are men looking for companionship. They are generally not men that couldn’t have an affair [if they wanted to], but men who want this tryst with no strings attached. They’re men who want to keep their lives at home intact.
Q. Do you know the real names of your clients?
A. Yes. Always. I insist that they give me their full names, I also check their identification when we meet. I also use verification companies, which assist escorts in verification of clients.
Q.What are your out-of-pocket costs?
A. fuel for travel( $250 a week), lingerie ($5,000 a year), scarlet blue website ($132 per month), hotel for Incalls ($250-300 per booking), makeup ($4,000 a year), Tan ($30 per week), phone ($50 a month).
Q. Do you have any regrets about your chosen profession?
A. Being an escort provided me with many opportunities that I’m not sure I would have gotten if I had not been an escort. That said, my choice to become an escort had a definite cost associated with it beyond the advertising, photos, and websites. I believe it is close to impossible to have a healthy relationship while working. So it can be a lonely life. In addition, hiding my job from my friends and family proved to be difficult for many reasons.
Q. Do you have any special skills when It comes to pleasing your clients?
A. As a courtesan, I do not actually have specific ‘skills’ or techniques that I strategically use on my clients. Rather, most of my clients derive their pleasure from pleasing me. They meet me. They see my body. They are besotted by my overall presence. My erotic appeal is, at first, visual….it’s my smile, my eyes, my body language. Otherwise, I do not perform any special sexual manoeuvres to seduce them. I just act myself in the moment, and we go with the flow. Most of the time, clients are already turned on (erect) by just meeting, seeing, talking, or touching the lady of their choosing.
Q. do you prefer rich men?
A. I have wanted to address this question for a long time, because there is a stereotype of prostitutes willing to have sex with any man who offers them money. Some are more/less discerning than others. There is also an assumption that prostitutes strongly prefer wealthy men. My own personal preferences may differ from other escorts, because I prefer quality over quantity. As a courtesan, I see clients very discerningly and sparingly. I am very picky with whom I see as clients, because I want to meet men whom I can potentially enjoy. Thus, I choose men who I think will be a positive experience — regardless of social status. Wealth doesn’t imply decency, respect, pleasure, or even generosity.
Q. do you prefer good looking men?
A. Looks are subjective. Personality is key. A beautiful personality can make everything beautiful — the way he talks, the way he touches, etc. A man who is only physically handsome isn’t really meaningful (in my personal view).