Few things that quickly turn me on..
1. Caring gestures make women feel really good. Guys don't realize how important they are for women when it comes to getting turned on in the bedroom. To connect physically, they really need that emotional and mental connection.
2. A simple apology when deserved expresses a deep kind of respect for the other person. Once you are with someone who is emotionally fair and considerate, I no longer care about dishes or who does what. And, for me, it's a definite turn-on.
3. Most men still have this inner child who is curious and innocent. My heart flutters when I see the man who doesn't have to solve every problem and know every answer and is just enjoying the moment. The real turn-on is that he is completely oblivious to my stares, which makes the innocence even more attractive.
4.When you're waiting in line somewhere and he starts massaging your shoulders while you're bored.
5.When he touches my knee under the table at a boring event. (Not so boring anymore.)